Does he want kids with me?

Question

me and my boyfriend never use condoms during s*x but we use the withdrawal method... i know stupid, and whenever i tell him i have to ask him something, whatever it may be he always jokes around and asks "you want my baby?" and i always say "no" and then he asks "you dont want my baby?" and i reply "not now but in the future yeah" and hes always joking around like that but i was wondering if you think he does want kids with me??

Answer 1

Girl, you'd better protect yourself!  Forget about the games of do you want my baby, etc.  Protect yourself!  And stop using the withdrawal method - it's not a method.  Condoms, IUD, the pill are methods.

Answer 2

girl make him strap up or ull be like me with a kid and no daddy arround..  same exact thing happened to me and he kept saying he wanted kids now hes a dead beat only watch out for yourself men are cruel and if u arent looking forward to having kids right now u betta use a condom,

Answer 3

Doesn't sound like you are ready to have babies with him. Babies take a huge amount of resources-time, money, love. If you two aren't serious, if either of you aren't serious then you need to reconsider unprotected s*x.

The withdrawal method doesn't work 100%. There is sperm in pre-ejaculation and you could very well become pregnant off of this. They say the best way to be pregnant is to be young, unmarried and messing around like this.

Seriously, you can find clinics and places like that for free condoms or birth control pills. Don't be that irresponsible with your own body. If the guy can't be responsible for condoms how responsible do you think he will be with kids? I can tell you he won't want to be bothered, just like with the condoms.

Answer 4

Having babies is NOT a joking matter Hun....children are a lifetime commitment.....no matter how old they are.....they are always YOURS and believe me....I have four.....they are on your mind 24/7.....you should NOT by any means be having unprotected s*x.....there is not only pregnancy to think about but STD's as well....people can pass on Herpes and not even be aware they have it themselves....I think you need to talk to an adult about this. Please educate yourself well in this area....I can't stress strongly enough to you about the deep commitment it takes to raise a child....especially in todays world.....please please please talk to someone you trust about your questions.....you should also get your boyfriend to go with you as well.....good luck to you both....

Answer 5

I think he does, and if you don't, you'd better be careful! My hubby and I were using the pull out method, and I am currently 16 weeks pregnant.

Answer 6

The only person who can answer this for you is him.