Does he want me or not??

Question

Been seeing this guy 5 months now, it is going quite slowly as he has been single for a few years and his job is so demanding. We get on really really well he is very attentive to me when i am with him and he makes me laugh. I asked him did he want to keep seeing me as i didnt want to be more pressure in his life and he said yes and that i was to stop stressing over it. I have very strong feelings for him and i wish i could tell him but i am scared that he doesnt have the same for me. Could he after 5 months feel something for me?? And would he have dumped me by now if he didnt want me around?? Im feeling so insecure as i have been hurt in the past and i am scared of losing this guy. Id love him to know how i feel, i have dropped him hints by telling him how much i really like him and miss him when he isnt around, and that hasnt made him run for the hills!! Help please

Answer 1

Why not tell him. If he doesn't feel the same you don't have to waste the next 5 months. If he does feel the same, bonus.

Answer 2

In love like any other thing in life there are no guarantees! Enjoy your time with him, and stop worrying about what may come of this because truly you simply can not control someone else's feelings for you.

Answer 3

he still wants u ☺☻☺☻☺☻☺☻☺

Answer 4

I was actually in the same situation as you not to long ago, but reversed. If you keep stressing that you really like him, it may freak him out a little bit. I say just tell him the truth, even if its by email (which is easier) or sms or even on the phone. If he dumps you because you love him, do you really want to be with a guy who would do something like that? so either way you win. It is possible that he likes you as you do him, you dont know it as maybe he dosent know that you like ihm that much. Be foward and if all goes wrong lock him in your basment for ever and ever.

Answer 5

Take it slow and enjoy it :]

He may be shy or he may be experiencing the same thing you are right now.  If he asks about how you feel about him, be honest.  Don't hurt your chances with him by being coy and reserved.  But honestly, don't worry about it.  He obviously enjoys spending time with you, and maybe it will turn into something more :]

He sounds like a real gentleman.  Hope everything works out for you two.

Answer 6

At 5 months into the relationship I would say don't stress so much.  Stressing about it will show in front of him and that might make him uncomfortable.  Maybe he is waiting to see how you handle the relationship with his job being so demanding of him.  Just relax and enjoy what you have for now.  You have the rest of your life to build a life with him if that's how it works out.

Answer 7

Apparently this guy is negligent to any signs of flirtation. Try and make the signs more clear by showing them more and saying more romantic and or lovey-dovey things. If that doesn't work then build enough confidence to set him down and tell him how you really feel.

I would like to help you much more, but I'm a little busy.

Hopefully I helped!

Answer 8

I can see why you would be feeling this way as you have been hurt in the past so your scared to show your true feelings in fear of being hurt again. But by the sounds of it he does want you around as even though he has a demanding job he is still making time to see you & why would he waste his time if he didn't feel anything for you? Yeah it has only been 5months so maybe his feelings are not as strong as yours but you will never no till you speak to him about how you are feeling... i hope this helps a little  

Answer 9

Just have fun. He likes ya and that all that matters. No need to feel insecure. Just have fun and go with the flow. All will be good and when you DO get to spend time together, make sure its good QUALITY time. Have fuuuuun :D