Does he want to see me again or was it just a one night thing?

Question

Well Im met this dude at a college party last night.Very nice guy he asked me to dance with him..when we were dancing he asked me questions about college if i had a boyfriend.What college year im in and what school i stay at.So it was a good night he came back told me to save a dance for him.it was the song my Wayne wonder-dont let it go.beautiful song.he came back and we started to dance.he asked me were i was going to be after the party i told him that i was going to be walking along the strip on our campus.he was like your sure now right cause i really want to talk to you afterwards.he also said out of allthe girls that he dance with i was the most prettiest girls he saw.and he also added im being for real.i walked along the strip i didnt see him at all.and now im like well what happened.was this just a one night thing.or was he looking to actually getting to know me

He was dancing with other girls at the party so i was wondering if he just forgot about me ad was hanging with another girl

Answer 1

There wasn't any paper type products or writing utensils around?  Hard to believe...  I think you avoided a one night stand...

Answer 2

DON'T READ TOO MUCH INTO HIS PARTY ACTIONS, HE WAS ONLY FLIRTING WITH U...DELETE THE THOUGHT U HAVE OF HIM, HE IS A PLAYER, IF HE WAS SERIOUS HE WOULD'VE GAVE YOU HIS NUMBER ....U DON'T NEED A PHONE WITH U IN ORDER TO GIVE U A NUMBER

Answer 3

I would be very careful in a situation like that. Most college parties have drinking going on or maybe even drugs. The alcohol may have taken over or he may have wanted to look like a big man on campus. Maybe he had a bet with a fellow classmate. He didn't ask for your phone number and you telling him where you would be walking is very dangerous. Never walk alone or tell someone you just met at a party privy to where you are going to be in that short of time. You don't know, there could have been several guys there. Be careful out there. The world is a dangerous place. If he was that "into " you, he wouldn't have danced with all the other girls and forgotten you.

Answer 4

I say you forget about him. If he was really interested in you, he wouldn't have forgotten about you and would make all the effort to see you at the strip. And again, if he was really interested, he would've taken down your phone number on a piece of paper, gave you HIS phone number, or just ask anyway. Unless you're really interested in pursuing this relationship, you should wave the guy goodbye.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

You won't know until you ask.

Answer 6

i think he just wanted to have s*x wid you. so i think it was just a 1 night thing but can never be sure until you ask him

Answer 7

I think if he was really that interested he would have made a major effort to meet up with you on the strip. I wouldn't waste my time on him if I were you.

Answer 8

Sorry If he wanted your number to call you he would have had you write it down on his hand or something. I think he was just wanting to have a good time with no strings attached. If he really wanted to talk to you he would have found you. Maybe I am wrong maybe he got caught up in something else and couldn't go on the strip. The best thing to do would be to talk to him. Don't just walk up to him and nag about how he never showed up. Just make small  talk and show him what a nice girl you are. If he likes you he will make sure he has your number.

Answer 9

It sounds like to me he must have found exactly what he wanted and went wiht that.Don't let him play you if you see him again,you deserve much better.

Answer 10

I think it was a one night thing.

Answer 11

he doesnt want anything but possibly s*x from u

move on

Answer 12

forget it hun if he wants 2 c u again then he'll go out of his way to try n find u again

Answer 13

If there was alcohol involved then he was likely looking for someone to hook up with.  This is just my experience.  He may have been a nice guy but if he really was that interested in having any sort of relationship with you he probably would have made a better effort to stay in contact with you after this party.  Sorry to say lots of guys in college are only looking for one thing.  Good luck to you...you may see him again.

Answer 14

As a guy... he seemed to be big on small talk... and we rarely care much that early on. I'm thinking it was a plan to connect... I hope he calls... but I think it was a guy with a plan.

Also... probably asked all the other girls the identical questions... with the same look, the same smile... even the same intonation. We like a plan that works. He woulda got the number.

Answer 15

I think it was a one night thing because, he was totally hitting on you, but it didn't sound serious. But don't get to upset about it, something may have happened suddenly so he couldn't hang with you afterwards.