Does it always have to be my fault

Question

My man thinks he isn't controlling but he is. when i'm out with my friends and get home late he tells me that i was out having s*x with another guy. honest to god i never even held hands with a guy while dating my boyfriend i swear. he calls me a s**t when he gets frustrated and can't come up with an excuse to lecture. he says that my friends aren't going to be around forever so why waste time hanging out with them.. does that make any sense? if that's the case then nobody should have friends. when we go to clubs he's making out with other girls but he'll flip out if i were to do the same. he says not to worry if he is having s*x with another girl because it's "just s*x" with no feelings attached. he'll try to convince me not to break up with him by crying or saying things such as "if your feelings for me was true you wouldn't hurt me" i want to kill him..

Answer 1

oh yeah...the tears are fake. if the s*x has no feelings then does that mean he has no feeling with you. he will get over you, trust me. he just wants you to feel bad so you wont go. most guys dont have fellings, girls are way more sensitive and guys play on that. you will be so much happier when you leave him. hurry up b4 you get pregnant. RUN. i bet you take really good care of him and he doesnt want to lose that, but he does not appreciate it. just leave

Answer 2

well if my man was making out or having s*x with anyone but me i would for sure have a problem with that...thats just plain wrong to do its messed up i wouldnt stay with him if i were you and **** the tears there probably all fake he knows if he lost you he would be losing the greatest thing he had...so if the things he did dont stop then i would just plain leave him what he is doing is so totally wrong on so many different levels...cause s*x with someone other than your partner is just ugh ****** up i wouldnt be able to take that

Answer 3

1) He thinks he isn't controlling you,but he is jealous of you.

2) When he accuse you of having s*x with another guy, then just let him know that accused can lead to real if he keeps on saying it without prove.

3) If he can have s*x without feelings for the person, why not you too, for being accused for not doing it?

4) Ask him does he wants you to go that way or the good way.

Tell him stop accusing you for what you are not doing.

Put up a fight with him for the said WORD.

Answer 4

dump him.

he's a rotten boyfriend.

seriously.

Answer 5

You need to see a marriage counselor. He is accusing you of the things he is doing. He is trying to get rid of his guilt by trying to make you as guilty as he is. This is a sick relationship.