Does it hurt the first time?

Question

okay sooo.. im 16 n my bf is 17, weve been dating for 2 months, we were best friends once but we fell in love. i really really love him. and he really really loves me. so he asked me if i wanted to have s*x with him.. and i said yes.. im kinda worried cos my friends told me it hurts so much and that u bleed a lot..

im kinda scared.. please heelp.. is that true?

Answer 1

yes it does

that is why i tell every girl to wait and have s*x with their husband

Answer 2

a guy cannot fall in love within two months

he shouldnt even be thinking about having s*x right after he

"lied" to you that he loves you.

your in trouble.

and of course it hurts

if you are going to have s*x. and not make love

wear protection. please

Answer 3

just so you know, the JustAfoo guy who said for you to go have s*x is a 16 year old guy (know from another question) who probably doesn't care less if you lose your virginity. It does hurt, it does bleed, 2 months is too shorter time. Please, please! think about what your doing here, its a BIG step. I don't want you getting hurt! Hope you make a sensible desicion about such a big stage in your life, saskia x

Answer 4

Well I say go ahead & do it.... I lost my virginity at 17 & it wasnt special... But I dnt have any regrets because me & my first arent together... I just wanna point out to make sure that ur ready... It didnt hurt for me...  && I only did a little bleeding.

Answer 5

2 months is too fast...don't give in you might regret it!

But it depends on the girl, it might hurt it might not

Answer 6

What's the rush to have s*x? But to answer your question, yes, it will be painful to you and bleed, if you are a virgin, and a lot of fun for him. Guys love to deflower girls, or to take their cherry. It's a conquest thing, a power thing. I would bet you dollars to doughnuts that he will **** you and dump you.    

Answer 7

yeah its true. sadly. you bleed cuz your bearing the skin cuz your v****a isn't used to having something bigger than it inside of you. but after a couple times it wont hurt or bleed. and it also depends on how big his d**k is too.  

Answer 8

It really depends. For some girls, it will hurt the first time, but for some other girls, it will feel really good immediatly. But in my opion you guys are too young. Wait untill you meet that really special person, or untill you get maried. Besides you are still to young. But dont worry after the first or second time "it" will not hurt anymore, It will feel really good!!

Answer 9

if you love each other like you say

then go for it  don't be scared

its not as bad as your friends say

may be there jealous

Answer 10

thts why he has to go slow. there is like a bubble in there tht pops and blood comes out! hts called popping ur cherry! yes it is true.

Answer 11

yes it hurts, but why do would you give yourself at this age?

why dont you wait until your feelings deepens.. why dont you wait for that perfect moment, instead of him asking you, cuz that only ment he just wants to have s*x.. if i was you i would be a smart girl & not do anything,, you will regret it, especially if you have been dating for 2 months, cuz lets say yall break up, then what? but its your choice..

Answer 12

It hurts because there is a small part inside your... "area" that is a small barrier, a man's "tool" will penetrate it, and cause a stinging sensation. What does happen, although not quite often, is if you do certain activities, like horseback riding, or martial arts, the barrier will stretch, and the pain will decrease to little or none.

Answer 13

your friends are wrong. Yes, it hurts, but not a lot and it's pretty well gone in a day. Nor do you bleed a lot.

  You just need to relax, be in the mood.

   Really, if it were like your friends said, would girls be in such a hurry ?

   Just make sure you use a condom and birth controll... now that "hurts", so remember the birth controll!!

Answer 14

Forget the first couple comments and their bible preaching ways and it being too early  NOBODY CARES.  If your in love go for it.

I was 15 when I lost my Virginity and my girlfriend was 14.  She admitted it had hurt at first but gradually got used to it.  However she didn't bleed,  not a lot of girls I know around your age who have lost their Virginity bled so you could get lucky!  But the pain thing,  no matter what age you loose it, its going to hurt I'm afraid, just ask him to take it slow,  I'm sure he will if you ask nicely!

Good Luck, and for **** sake USE A CONDOM!

Actually, reading the other answers ... your all f**s.