Does it hurt to be fingered?

Question

Well i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now.I am 16 he's 17.We have never had any kind of s*x.Because i am not ready.

We have decided that insted of having s*x maybe we can do some other things.if we decided we're comfortable doing them.

I've heard that being fingered hurts really bad?And when i tried to do it myself.it was pretty painful.

Will it hurt if he does it?because one of my friends says it never feels good when you do it yourself,but when a guy does it,it feels better.

what do you think?did it hurt you?

no rudeness please.

Answer 1

Well you never had any kind of s*x so your a virgin yeah it will hurt because nothing ever been inside of you he can start of slow wit only 1 finger since your a virgin he shouldn't force more fingers he should only use 1 and he can rub your C**t too to ease the little bit of pain you will feel it will start feel like sweet pain after a while but good job your not ready to lose your virginity im proud of you girl! High five!

Answer 2

Ok no rudeness just give you facts not through sexual connotation what so ever.

YES & NO. First the Yes, if a guy is eager and very aggressive the fingering could turn into a painful episode because he will keep on lurking his finger there in your o*****e as if putting locks inside a doorknob. Usually guys like these are inexperience, mostly who comes to prostitute for sexual pleasure and when they come to partner they do not know how to pleasure their girl friend and still thinking their partner is still a prostitute. Some guys have their first experiences with hookers or prostitute that is why they are like these type.

Second the No, if you have a very sensitive partner or boyfriend and had already an experience not through hookers but the usual type of girls then you are so lucky. He knows when to use his fingers and when to use his mouth. He begins to stroke your opening like opening a flower bud. While the other guys when they put their finger to a girl o*****e is like they are opening a canned of beans or corn beef. Here the guy is very gentle and loving so you wouldn't feel a thing or hurt you, and if you feel good you will begin to lubricate therefore the more you love the stroking of his fingers so you won't feel hurt or anything.

So the rule is if it hurts tell him to stop it. There is also one style of you both do not decide to have s*x is doing the oral s*x just to pleasure one another. This is also comforting one another, this is the 69 style. From the number itself, 6 and 9 you can tell what the number connotes, your head to his crotch and his head to yours. But this is also tantamount to s*x when both of you cannot control your emotion anymore. But the main point is to satisfy each other in these position without penetration.

Answer 3

it can if done too roughly which most inexperienced people do.  he can focus on just the outside and ease it in gently.  it may be uncomfotable the first few times

Answer 4

Some men can be quite rough because tbh they dont really know what they're doing! I think you will be fine though. You both love each other and im sure your boyfriend doesnt want to hurt you so will be gentle. Just take it slowly and 'explore' together,  If it's uncomfortable just say so.  

Answer 5

Well I'm sixteen, and am now abstinent (I have had s*x before though) and no it doesn't hurt (as long as he's not rough) but one things for sure if you think you are going to just finger and leave it at that, it will never happen, you will end up having s*x. I just wouldn't want someone to make that mistake. If you've already waited that long what's a few more years? You'll feel better about yourself.

But it's your choice, you'll probably like it but it won't stop there.

Best wishes and God bless.

Answer 6

Tell him to be kind and to concentrate on the C**t