Does it meant that i'm not that into him?

Question

I don't get nervous when I am meeting up with a guy that I am seeing. I also don't stress on what to wear, if I look good. I am also comfortable being around him. I am shy person but I am not shy with him.

Even if I want to have s*x with him, I just go for it. I am just myself with him.

So does this mean I am not that into him?

Answer 1

hmmmmmmmmm,  what?

Answer 2

You should be comfortable and open with your lover, if you weren't there would be something wrong.

The fact you are questioning your relationship makes me wonder more than the fact you are happy, comfortable, and content in your relationship.

Answer 3

Well, it's a good thing to be comfortable around someone and be yourself, but if you're having to ask this question at all, then maybe you're not that into him.  Do you look forward to seeing him and spending time with him?  What thoughts go through your head when you think about breaking up with him or never seeing him again?  Maybe he's more of a friend than anything.  It's hard to say.  

Answer 4

it's hard to say.  if you're questioning whether or not you like a guy, you probably don't like him.

i'm very comfortable around my boy, but that's because we have a great connection.  it's not a bad thing to be comfortable.

but it sounds like you aren't really sure if you like him - which means you probably don't.  

Answer 5

Maybe you are just really that comfortable with him, that can be a good thing.  Some people are like that.

If you feel that you don't respect him though or that you just don't really care if he's there or not, then maybe you should think carefully about what to do about the relationship.  Sometimes (not always) comfortable can mean complacent.

Answer 6

I don't worry about any of that stuff either with my man. I used to when we first got together though. But, now I am comfortable with him. But more then likely if your doubting liking him. Then you probably don't.

Answer 7

no, just the opposite.  congrats, you found your soul mate