Does it really hurt or is he full of bull?

Question

Okay. Well when ur giving a guy well ya know, and u stop before he "finishes" he says it hurts. Is that true or is he trying to get you to go further?

Answer 1

If the man has been stimulated with no ejaculation for a prolonged period if time it can hurt.  Men call this "blue-balls".  This is probably due to muscle fatigue of internal sphincters.

Answer 2

Never happened to be before. And I've been left high and dry plenty of time on account of me have a huge p***s. The girls just can't take too much the first time, they have to take it in small doses before they get uses to it. In the end no I never got "blue balls"

Answer 3

If you two are just petting heavily without actually touching each other in the genital area try dry humping with your clothes on. If you are masturbating him with your hand yes it does hurt not to finish him off. If you are doing a sweet oral tease, again finish what you started.

Something tells me that your so called friend is pushing you to do certain sexual favors that (you) aren't comfortable with. In which case you'd better extinguish the sexual fire between you. If he doesn't still love you fore the girl you want to be tell him to take a hike.  

Answer 4

doesn't hurt, but can be very frustrating

Answer 5

I know i'm not a guy but it does hurt them when you don't finish. It actually hurts me a little when i'm close and then I don't ***. It's not BS.

Answer 6

What he's saying is that he's going to get "blue balls" which means that there's congestion in his testicles and it will ache a little bit if he doesn't come.  Just tell him to use his hand and that will solve all his problems - no more congestion - no more ache.

Answer 7

Lots of guys have a tough time ejaculating thro' fellation and expect the partner to go on and on. Perhaps he is telling you    that it hurts so that you will take the initiative and continue to pleasure him to climax. Your hands are probably your most effective s*x organs and you can do whatever is comfortable for both of you. Fellatio is not the be-all and end-all of s*x. Guys usually love it but not everyone likes to perform it.

More importantly has this guy offered to pleasure you orally or is he too interested in his own "relief".

Answer 8

No & he's lying cause he wants U 2 go further.

Men will do anything 2 shoot their loads in something, whether it's in U're mouth, c*** or a**.

Yar

Answer 9

Hello there,

I doesn't hurt, some men just say carry on, but it feels f^*king nice down there, so they just say it hurts. So  dont listen to him, just reply to him by saying o shut up i doesnt hurt.

Thanks bye.

Answer 10

what a bl0w j0b? If you need to rest and catch a breather NO that's now hurting him.  He should be considerate and allow you take a break, catch your breath or adjust.  Anyways you might not wanna swollow when he ejaculates.