Does it seem like she is the one or could I be reading too much into it?

Question

I have a friend that is for the most part straight, but I suspect she might have some same s*x tendencies. Ive known her for about a year and we have gotten rather close.

When I first saw her, which was last summer, we had passed each other on campus and a few hours later I ended up moving into the same apartment that she was living in on campus! We instantly became friends, etc. From then on, until the present day, it seems like we have an odd connection, for example, if I was thinking of her and about to text or call her, she would end up calling or texting me before I could get to her, or I could feel when she was near and it would turn out she was, or we would end up at the same place and I would always have a feeling if she was there and Id run into her. After I graduated, we didnt talk for about a couple of months and I had a feeling she was living in the same apartment complex as me, and sure enough, she is! We have been talking more now again and it just seems like no matter what, we end up together at some point.

We have gotten touchy in the past and close, but nothing has happened yet. One time she let me carry her to bed, and she was constantly hugging me goodnight when we were roomies. I do flirt with her and playfully make comments and she doesnt seem to mind, it actually seems like she likes it. I think I do like her alot and have feelings. I dont know.

She knows Im into girls and Ive talked to her about my past situations and shes been supportive and offered her advice. She is totally cool with g*y people and when Ive made comments to her about how hot she is and things like that, she just giggles and she seems to like it. Once I told her how lovely I thought she was and she told me she likes when I say tthings like that to her.

Am I reading too much into it? Any advice? Thoughts?

Answer 1

It's so easy to misread the signals when we have a crush on someone. If she is interested in you in a romantic way she will make it known. I would just wait this one out and see what happens without pushing her.

L

Answer 2

Awww I almost cried reading this... ya'll sound so cute. I say you should ask her if she's ever been with a woman and if ya'lls friendship could cross that boundary. Let her know just how thangs are just as you put it on this blog.  

I wasn't g*y or bi, eight months ago, and never entertained the idea- it took one very special female to turn me out and I have nothing but love for my stud, no regrets.  

Answer 3

i think she may be bisexual and you have to talk to her about you do you feel and tell her exactly what did you said to us and then just let her make her choice...  

Answer 4

It sounds like you've fallen for a straight girl. She sounds like a good friend who is very accepting of your sexuality. She's probably flattered by your flirtations and compliments. Still, it doesn't mean she is interested in you in the same way you're interested in her. On the other hand, it may make her uncomfortable and she might not know how to tell you without hurting you so she plays along. If you really are convinced she may have feelings for you, talk to her about it. I seriously doubt it will hurt the friendship since you both are so close.