Does it sound like he likes me for me or for other reasons?

Question

okay so I met this boy about a month ago, and he is really cute! I would say that I'm pretty too, so were good for eachother, but anyways I am 15 and he is 14, will be 15 in december( I dont care about the age)....I cant seem to figure out if he loves me for me though or just as someone like friends with benefits......well he like acts really weird sometimes and says will you bang me, blow me and stuff like that..then he says you dont have to do it if you dont want to do it, i respect you for that....and he always says I want you, I say i want you too and h**l be like In my pants. he is always calling me babe, and baby. and telling me ily. When we get together he waits a little bit then he puts his arm around me and rubs me and stuff....hes really sweet too like we went to the movies and he had already paid for my ticket before i got there...and last night he said ily.i said ily too and he was like nah..i was like what, you dont want me to love you?...he said ya i do when were making love...and im like thats the only time you want me to love you? and hes like nah.

We are always talking to eachother like texting..what do you think about it?

does he want me to be his girlfriend or does he want me for other stuff

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thanks!

Answer 1

i think he does but i think he kinda wants you know what

Answer 2

  You guys are really young. I guess times have changed, my friends were'nt even having these issues at 15.

This boy is probably feeling out what it means to hang out with girls and what to do with his budding emotions for them.  I'm sure he hears a lot of different voices (media, family, friends etc) telling him how he should feel, what he should to, what is acceptable, what is cool, what is respectable, what he wants to do, what he aught to do etc.

It sounds like he wants to throw the idea out there, but doesn't know exactly how to go about it.  

You're the same age and he realizes that it's newer ground for you too, so he doesn't want to push the subject. (something tells me that he's heard that phrase before 'only when we're making love'.  

Let him know that he doesn't have to sound cool.  Express that it's important to you that he is genuine because liking someone isn't a game.  He does a lot of  nice things so he knows how to express himself without being all over you.

I think this is just very new  territory and there's no practice trials to prepare you for how things happen.  Respect is very important. hope this helped.

Answer 3

um, i would stop having s*x.

you are too young.

fyi, all 14 year old boys will 'love you' if you s***w them. keep that in mind.

he probably won't be around for long either.

your parents taught you well.

Answer 4

oh no for sure he wants to marry you.  cmon girl the signs are all there, its about s*x and only about s*x.  that is why your parents and any one with any kind of brains will tell you....keep it.  don't give it away.  at your age boys only want s*x what else is there.  start now and you will have so many partners by the time you are 18 well you know what you will be by then...a name that is not very nice.

Lots of girls giving it away...not one of them is happy

Answer 5

i agree with socalxba he just wants puss wants he gets some he will be gone or callin you all the time to get some more  

Answer 6

im sorry..

but i think he might just want you for s*x..

likee..

if he says will u bang me and stuff

thats just goin abit too far..

cuz ur not even datin ..

i may be wrong

but thats my opinion

x*x

Answer 7

he seems like he wants you to be fwb... but thats just what it seems like... is he always like that or is it just once in a while

Answer 8

No offense--but if he is 14 and you are 15 you are a little young to be talking about how you love each other and you really should not be "making love".

Just my oppinion but you should wait untill you are older. All he wants is s*x.. he dosent seem to care about you.

Answer 9

Sounds like the two of you are interested in each other for experimental reasons. You are exploring sexuality with each other. So, I don't think he loves you. For your own sake, stop fooling around with him. Otherwise you will grow feelings for him that and he will break you heart.

Answer 10

Sorry to disappoint you but honestly, both of you do not know at your age  and your inexperience with love, what the meaning of LOVE is.

I will give you both credit though - both of you are physically attracted to each other ---- you are both young and both of you are experiencing physical sensations that usually are mistaken for love.

True love is deeper and goes beyond sexual attraction.

Give yourselves the chance to grow . . .  and if indeed, this physical attraction develops into a more mature, more meaningful and more lasting relationship, then go and nurture it.