Does most guys get a fuzzy feeling when lookin at other guys in underwear?

Question

im only 17 , and i have had multiple times 2 do it with my g/f all alone in her and my room but i could never get it up.....now i realized when i was in public with her, she always made me get a hard on..but when we were alone i couldnt...i was lookin online the other day and saw pictures of guys and i was almost sweating....why is this happening? i prayed to be straight i didnt want to be a dissapointment.....wtf?

Answer 1

its a normal reaction..just a stage you are going through. everyone is a little curious.  

Answer 2

Don't mind karen,you aren't bi,just something else........

Answer 3

Try focusing on the great things women have like asses and **** and if that's not enough take a viagra and get in bed with her and the reason your sweating is because you are stressed about being g*y and you don't want to be (I would also suggest looking a female p**n or at least go to GQ magazines website and look and those amazing girls or if your desperate either smash your computer or cut the power cord)

or instead just open a playboy and get cracking on those exposed and over sized ****. If you have are really desperate try going out and get a girl freind who likes a man who's DARING (what I mean is someone who grabs her a s s).

Answer 4

You can't change your sexuality no matter how bad you want to. If you're afraid people won't accept you then you can keep it secret for a while. Your the way you are for a reason.

Answer 5

I love looking at guys.  Also love touching and playing with them too.

I've known I'm bisexual since I was just a little boy though, I'd imagine you should too.

Everybody has been bi curious in their life, even the egotistical macho-men that won't admit it.

Answer 6

Dude looking at other guys and sweating could be a g*y sign but since you get a hardon looking at your girlfriend you could be straight i say just try not to look at guys  

Answer 7

Well, honey, it sounds as if you may have an interest in men. That doesn't necessarily mean you're g*y, though: you might just be bisexual, or even bicurious. Even so, being homosexual doesn't make you a disappointment. Not to sound all 'after-school special' or anything, but sexuality is a pre-determined attribute that everyone has to learn to accept.

If you do happen to be g*y, the easiest way to find out for sure would be experimentation. SAFE experimentation, that is. Go to a g*y bar, or go to a g*y chat room. Just see if talking to a man in a flirtatious way has the same effect as seeing a picture of a man. Because, if you are g*y, accepting the fact will make you much happier and make life much less overwhelming.

I really hope this helps!

God bless, and good luck :]]

-Cupcake.

Answer 8

Dude your Bi

Answer 9

hah stupid people think you chose what you are. your born a certain way but its up to you to decide what you are

Answer 10

Your only a disappointment if you have parents whom are embracing idocracy. If you believe in god fair enough I will give you a religious answer, God loves us all and wants you to be this way.

Your parents may not like it, if not, stuff them, say you either love me or hate me and move on from them, they will then have to make the decisions not you and you will be free.

Craig.

Answer 11

You could be bi.

You get a hard on while looking at your girlfriend in public because you are around people and you aren't afraid.  But when you get her alone, you might be a little nervous around her.  If you were planning on doing it.  No big deal.

But looking at guys could mean you are bi.

I seriously believe everyone is bi because I think you can choose which way you want to go.  But it's ok whatever you choose.

And if you go with your girlfriend and try it again, just think about the guy's underwear.  Ha more like support until you are less nervous.

Answer 12

Nooo your either bi or g*y!!! We dont need anymore g**s!!!!

Answer 13

well you are the only one that can answer your question ,i mean you like to see pics of guys? does it make you feel good? if so then just go with it don't let it frighten you ,everyone is different so do what you enjoy not what is expected of you

Answer 14

I went through this before I finally got the courage to ask my now-ex out.  Its hard, when you so desperately want to be one thing but your mind and body are telling you something else.  You are who you are - don't be afraid to be that person, please.  I tried everything to 'turn myself' straight, and in the end just had to accept it, and although things are messed up now I had four years in a blissfully (mostly) happy relationship with a guy I'm still in love with.  Word of warning though - I wouldn't hide who you are, it makes things complicated. Very complicated.

Hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 15

Prayer is, honestly, totally meaningless -- I'm sorry to have to say that, but I prefer to be honest with you.  You are what you are born to be -- whether that be g*y or straight or bisexual.  That is simply a fact.

There is nothing wrong with being g*y.  It is a natural sexual variation that is extremely common.  You are not alone.  The recent study in the Annals of Internal Medicine (September 2006) titled "Discordance between Sexual Behavior and Self-Reported Sexual Identity: A Population-Based Survey of New York City Men" showed yet again that the percentage of males who are homosexual (regardless of whether they use that title to describe themselves or not) hovers at around 12% -- which when combined with the lower percentage of lesbians indicates that about 10% of the human populace are, whether honest or not, homosexual.

It isn't a decision you have, or can make.  It simply is a fact.  You can choose only how to live -- not what you prefer.  You can choose however to be happy, or you can choose to be sad.  You can choose to embrace who and what you are -- and find a happy, wonderful life, or you can choose to be miserable and to live a lie with a woman while needing males (a need that will grow stronger and stronger, btw -- just so you know).  Those things are up to you.  What type of desire is there is NOT up to you.

Believe in yourself and know that some of us are there and care about you and are willing to listen and try to help.

Kindest thoughts,

Hermes