Does my bf just want my body???

Question

He is sweet to me and real nice. But i get details from his best friend about things we don't talk about and it sounds like he just wants to kiss me and play around. i really like him and he is not like that when we talk. But i don't think his bf is lying. Do you think he just wants my body??? he seems so nice and keeps saying that he loves me! Does he just wanna play?!

Answer 1

well ima guy and ima tell you that, thats what most boys search for "a good looking body" but thats not what you gotta be worrying about. juss make him think or let him know that you are a wifey type of girl and like that you will know if he likes you for your body or not......  

Answer 2

Well I guess one way to find out, is hold out for as long as you can or need to, and if he gets mad and starts to pressure you then he just wants to play.

Answer 3

alright, that's tough...

but you must not believe 100%. because there is no exact things to prove it.

maybe your boyfriend is naturally affectionate (likes to kiss and hug or what kind of physical affections)...maybe that's what his best friend's meant to say. but if you really wanna make sure of it...just see it for yourself as the right situation came.

if you noticed that he's always kissing you in public places (which is not good really especially in the eyes of others) then it was the first sign. but don't doubt his kisses...boys are naturally kiss lovers.

okay...i will give you the situation which you can see if your boyfriend's best friend is lying or not.

if he asks you to have s*x, refuse it...and if he insists...refuse again and say that you don't like because (You should include your reason)...but if he still insists and tell/ask you something like: "Why you don't like? because you have another man? you're cheating on me?"  or something like "Why? because you don't love me now?"

oh c'mon! there are so many ways to show how much you like him!

and if that happens...it will be your final sign (That time...maybe your boyfriend's best bud was right)

you have to doubt him now if that happened.

but don't be so suspicious, you can make some ways to see if its true in a way that you will not hurt his feelings.

just be alert to yourself

goodluck :)

Answer 4

If it sounds like he just wants to play around, you're probably right. He wouldn't be the first guy to say anything he thinks a girl wants to hear in order to get in her pants.

Answer 5

Wht ever the truth is it will come out one day...till then dont think about all this...there are many things to think abt....like he is tryin to play kool in frnt of his friends....or his frnd may be lying cos if jealousy....so dont think abt all this & spoil your relationship....as main base of a relationship is TRUST and if you loose that you willl never be happy so just dont think about all this...enjoy the time that you spend to gather...and it will be really better if you ask your heat if he is cheating on you or not....m telling u this as you love him and he is close to your heart

Answer 6

Trust one person and believe one person.

Answer 7

guys will say and or do anything they have to to get in your pants. ask his friend if he's serious or just saying that cuz he wants you. tell your bf what you're not comfortable doing and that if he respects you he'll listen and if he just wants s*x to have a woman who doesnt have self-respect and suggest he look on street corners because you respect yourself and are more than just flesh. he has to respect you as a whole, not just your body. cuz guys like that will move on to the next, to the next, to the next. and have babies that they aren't around to help raise. etc.

Answer 8

He might be just telling you things you wana hear

-Ash

Answer 9

The same questions over and over again.  But you think your situation is different and has special circumstances. YOUR QUESTION IS N O T  different and has special circumstances.

All healthy REAL men and boys WANT THE BODY INSIDE AND OUT.  Real men have to get the body before the personality and even her name is looked at.  

Women can look hot in her clothes and can look completely different nude.  Even a swimsuit 1 or 2 piece distorts the real look.  Also experienced men know that even the fit of the p***s in the v****a can be so bad the girl is not worth chasing after.  Men want girls with sexual experience, nothing worse than bad s*x and showing a girl is not all its cracked up to be.  

The fast track to a good relationship is give up the body and then if he approves he will come after her.  THEN and only then will the girl have any say in the relationship..

Answer 10

1) Trust your BF over his best friend

2) Guys will often talk objectively with other guys about their girlfriends.  That's guy talk.  Guys don't often talk about the emotional side of their relationships with other guys, so even the best friend is probably only getting half the story.

Answer 11

Guys look like wimps around their friends if they talk about how much they love their girlfriends so they just focus on how hot you are and how they just want to play around with you when in truth there's a lot more to the relationship than that. No your BF does not just want your body.