Does my boyfriends family hate me?

Question

ok so ive been with this guy for almost 4 years and i still don't talk to his family. i think they hate me! well i talk to his lil sis but that's it i feel so weird around them. they only speak spanish and i only speak english i can understand it a lil bit but i dnt feel comfortable speaking it. what am i supposed to do i really want to be with this guy but i hate being around his family i feel so awkward there are sometimes when its ok and i try to be myself but i can feel them looking at me weird or looking down at my for not speaking spanish and I'm mexican i just never learned ive picked up a lot in the past 4 yrs but not enough what should i do?

Answer 1

You should really talk to your boyfriend about your problem. Let him know that you don't feel comfortable around his family. Even ask him to teach you to speak spanish. It's not your fault that you were raised to speak english as a dominant language. It happens to a lot of people.

Answer 2

does it really affect your relationship, if not then just deal with the times when you have to be with his family dont let it ruin your relationship i have to live with my mother in law and we have this secret hate but its kinda done but not said.