Does my crush/friend hate me now? Why is he ignoring me all of the sudden?

Question

I kinda told my crush/friend in a way that I didn't like him... WHEN I DID! i thought he liked me, but then i just let him go so i wouldn't get hurt.

stupid, right? he's been ignoring the h**l out of me ever since.

i was a few feet away from him and he was looking at me today and he didn't even bother saying hi like he always did... he just passed by. he's been doing this for weeks. and he talks to all our other friends like nothing happened & he ignores me

he's in a relationship, too. i don't care, but he won't talk to me as a friend anymore. any idea why?

ps. he says hi, but it's once in a blue moon.

Answer 1

I guess he want to get rid from you. Best way u ignore him now and give him dame care.

Answer 2

Either he likes you and is upset that you supposedly don't like him, or he doesn't like you as a friend (the potential cold truth). Either way, the best thing to do would be to confront him about it. Boys are dense, and he might not see that you're upset. Asking him why he's ignoring you would get the best straightforward anser instead of guessing, hearing from someone else, jumping to conclusions, etc.

Answer 3

well id say hes prob just tyrin 2 move on if he did like u *since he thinks u dont like him* it would of hurt alot if he did like u 2 hear u say that.

its hard to say

u no him best so no answer can be quite right of here.

try to imagine that it had been the other way round and relax your mind until your completely in his shoes and go through the whole scenario..wat wud u be thinkin ??

ps..y dont u try sayin hi first..its only awkward if u make it awkward =]

xx

Answer 4

well, instead of him saying "hi", you start it.just give him a sign that your still the friendly old you and u didnt mean anything serious when you said you didnt like him...orrr..come out with the whole truth

Answer 5

apparently he doesnt like u and thinks its awkward to be around u knowiing that he doesnt have the same feelings..

Answer 6

I think that he got hurt or he liked you or maybe he just wanted some time away from you

GooD LucK

Answer 7

I think that things are going to be kind of awkward for awhile. What if he did like you and then you told him that you didn't like him. That would probably crush the guy. He is in a relationship though, you should at least respect him enough to leave it be. If he wants you bad enough he'll come.

Answer 8

He probably feels it would be waaay to awkward. So, instead, YOU start the convo. If you see him, smile and say hi. What harm can it do? Then he'll be completely rude if he doesn't respond. If he still doesn't talk, he's completely not worth it and you're better off without him.