Does my ex still want to be in my life? :@?

Question

1. he dumped me.

2.After he dumped me.. he started to ring me and text me heaps.

3.I went to my mates house, and he was telling me to go home and he said hes only worrying about me until i get a next boyfriend.

4.He dumped me because hes "scared" hes going to cheat on me :@

5.We were together for 10months.

6.I cant stop crying, he broke my heart so bad :'(

7.Why isnt he leaving me alone? I thought he loved me.

:'(

What is he DOING?:'(

Answer 1

you can choose to move on and heal  

Answer 2

If he's "scared" he's going to cheat, it means there's already someone he's interested in. "katydid" is right on ! The best thing you can do, is move on. Get your life together andf have a good job to fall back on. Don't ever get to where you depend on a guy like this........you CAN'T.

Answer 3

It is called ABUSE and keeping a woman in reserve. He knows how you feel about him...at least that is how the world describes LOVE. Let's consider another definition for you to adopt. LOVE IS HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF WHEN WITH SOMEONE. Now, with that in mind. how do you feel about yourself when you think of him disrespecting and pushing you away? Not too good. So, dear, you are not in love with him right now...your relationship no longer leaves you with a good taste in your mouth. He is not scared of cheating on you anymore...he probably did and felt so guilty, that he made the excuse to break up before you find out about it...then he can claim that "we were not together". Girl, dump him from your bowels like a hard terd. He is immature and means you no good to twist your emotions like this. Get into yourself, work that hair, nails, clothes and watch who else is just waiting to talk to you....and let them. Tell your ex you love him enough to let him go as he begs for your audience once more. NEVER GIVE A DOG A 2ND CHANCE TO BITE YOU IN THE BUTT! Good luck with common sense and love yourself. Only you are responsible for making you happy...so get going to do just that.  

Answer 4

I know your hurting bad but he's playing with you. If he's "scared" he's going to cheat on you then he already has or has thought about him. I spent 7 years dealing with the same kind of c**p! Don't waste your precious time. Life is way to short and you will find someone who isn't afraid they cheat on you. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon!

Answer 5

he's being selfish. tell him to leave you alone.

Answer 6

He's f**king with your head. Notice that he calls you and thinks he can tell you to go home. If he claims he's "scared" to cheat, he probably already has.

Quit answering his calls and don't respond to his text messages. Trust me, you're playing by his rules and he's loving every minute of it. It's a control issue.