Does my girlfriend Kelli needs a reality check>???

Question

Ive been dating my super hot girlfriend Kelli, but I think she might need a reality check. Let me just start by saying that shes a super cool chick very smart, Hot bod, but I think she got a couple of things screwed up. #1 have 3 kids ( 2 in College but their college is eating me alive) she has no kids, #2 she has like 9 cats, 2 dogs, 7 horses and doesnt have the money to feed all her pets. Well she wans me to marry her and dump the family. Well I try to help her out time to time again with hay, cat food, dog food, etc. She cant even buy her some nice clothes or anything, She always shops at the goodwill and she looks like c**p most of the time. She kind of reminds me of Elly May from the B.Hillbillies, Well I dont have the heart to tell her whats wrong with her priorities can someone give me adives on how to tell her Im not dumping my kids to marry her and feed her farm animals. Help>?

Answer 1

Good lord. You must really like this girl cause I would have shown her the door LONG ago. Talk to her and be straightforward that your family comes first. If she cares about you, she should be willing to try and get along with them. The animals thing is ridiculous, they need to be given up for sure. I would encourage her to find some of them good homes and only keep a few. It sounds like she will need a lot of compromise because she may be borderline hoarder (thats a medical condition nowadays) I hope for your sake you do not marry this woman until everything between you, her and your family is straightened out.

Answer 2

u should just leave her i dont think that she will be a good mother to your kids

Answer 3

it seems as if she has a lot on her hands and feels that since you guys are together its both you and her problem when it shouldnt be that way its ok to help but if you keep it up youll be nothing more than a sugar daddy ;lol

Answer 4

I personally think that you should ltell her how you feel then leave her alone. I'm pretty sure she didn't beat round the bush when she told you to dump your kids for her..why would you even want to be with someone like that? By her saying that alone says that she only cares about herself, well her animals rather....and she def. wouldn't be a good step-mom,so you should find someone else!!

Answer 5

It's better for you to make sure she knows and accepts your priorities in life. If that doesn't work neither will the relationship work on a long term basis.As far as personal hygene is concerned is probably due to a low self esteem problem. That's another issue to consider. What's inside a person usually reflects to the outside. If the package is not what you want now ,you cannot plan for it to change for the better afterwards.Proceed with caution.

Answer 6

You sound like a sugar daddy.

You shouldn't marry her. The girl should sell some of her horses and yes get a reality check.