Does my guy friend like me as more than a friend???

Question

1) He IMed me saying he might go see a movie last month. He said maybe I could go too if I wasn’t busy. I said ok, then he later gave me the details. He didn’t say who else was going. I thought we were going to meet a bunch of our friends at the movies, and his mom was giving me a ride (we live nearby eachother). When they pulled up, their whole family was in the car! So, I ended up going to the movies w/ his family. His mom said they would sit separately from him and me. We ended up sitting next to each other, w/ his family behind us. His mom said, “Don’t think we’re spying on you or anything!”

2)The last time I knew he liked someone (he liked her for 3 years) EVERYONE knew he liked her... And he wasn't afraid to say it out loud/admit it

*This is what's throwing me... If he acted that way before, wouldn't he do that if he liked me too?

3) When I asked him who he liked via IM (someone I know likes him) he wouldn’t tell me, and made me guess… I narrowed it down to the girls in the flute section, and I went through them one by one. He kept saying no. When I got to me, he just said “bye” and signed off…. The next day he IMed me and asked me who I liked so I IMed him and asked him if he liked me. He said, “yes, why wouldn’t I?”

Not sure if his "Yes" was a "yes, I like you as more than a friend" or a "yes, you're my friend, so of course I like you"

*I said I didn't like anyone at the time

4)His little bro has told me he likes me (multiple times) that he talks about me at home a lot (i don't know if he was joking)

Help!! Thanks! I'm not sure if I like him...

Answer 1

the FLUTE SECTION!

ahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahaahhah... FLUTE SECTION...aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaa...

Answer 2

your confused...because he is confused..

I think you both like each other but find it hard to admit to each other and to yourself...

why don't you talk about your feelings so don't no misunderstanding can arise...

Answer 3

yeah!!! he like u lots!!

wait till he ask u out!

good luck

Answer 4

he liks u as more then just a friend cuz guys dont act that akward if they like u as just a friend. he is just having a really hard time admitting he likes u cuz he afraid u wont like him back. make the first move on him cuz guys can be totally clueless at time.

Answer 5

I am not sure if you're still in highschool or in college, because from what I'd sense in your lines, the guy seems too hesitant to tell you what's the real score of his feelings that made me think he is still a young boy. I understand your part because I've been there in your situation, it's really confusing for the part of the girl when a guy shows some attention and interest but could not really utter exact words. Well, based on your story, he likes you but very unsure of himself that left you guessing his real motives. The best move for this situation is to ignore him for a while and don't pay much attention to his hesitant moves, if he keeps on pestering you with his invitations don't grab it right away, try to ponder your fate if you are contented with that kind of torture. If he will noticed your little refusal, he will pressed you with his persistent invitations when he really likes you. That's when you know his real motives and his real feelings. Right now, ask your self if the guy has a special place in your heart before you embark on his next invitation. May this tips help you a lot.

Answer 6

hahaha he goes to the movies with his family......QUEEEEEEEEEER

Answer 7

i think he does.  

Answer 8

yes, i would totally say that he likes you,  he just has a goofy family ;0) he just probably had them come along because he was nervous... lol ask him out! im sure he would love it ;0) good luck to you both! =0)

Answer 9

1) People go to movies casually pretty frequently, and families are not unknown to accompany on such outings so you can't really determine anything by this event.

2)Everytime you like someone new, there's often a whole new sensation surrounding it, the feeling itself can be something completely different so It's not neccesary to expect him to show how he feels the same way as he did before.

3) He said he likes you, he understands the context you were asking him in and is just an *** if he claims he didn't

4) Little brothers are not known for their honesty, Don't get your information from them, get your information from the source, talk to your guy friend, If you want to know if he likes you, ask him.

Answer 10

I think your friend has major crush on you. He's  just afraid, or even embarrased, to tell you how he's feeling. Maybe he's scared he'll get rejected, or perhaps he doesnt want to jepordize your friendship if things didn't work out. Either way, you should just ask him straight out. If you don't feel the same way, then tell him that you value your friendship, but you just don't see him as a boyfriend.

Answer 11

yes he does, he likes you a lot. he just won't admit it because he knows you'll say no or he's a really shy person. if you don't like him then don't bring up anything that shows your interested in him or anything he's said that is asking if  your interested in him.

Answer 12

he likes u   a lot