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Does my guy friend like me as more than friends?

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1) He IMed me saying he might go see a movie last month. He said maybe I could go too if I wasn’t busy. I said ok, then he later gave me the details. He didn’t say who else was going. I thought we were going to meet a bunch of our friends at the movies, and his mom was giving me a ride (we live nearby eachother). When they pulled up, their whole family was in the car! So, I ended up going to the movies w/ his family. His mom said they would sit separately from him and me. We ended up sitting next to each other, w/ his family behind us. His mom said, “Don’t think we’re spying on you or anything!”

2)The last time I knew he liked someone (he liked her for 3 years) EVERYONE knew he liked her... And he wasn't afraid to say it out loud/admit it

*This is what's throwing me... If he acted that way before, wouldn't he do that if he liked me too?

3) When I asked him who he liked via IM (someone I know likes him) he wouldn’t tell me, and made me guess… I narrowed it down to the girls in the flute section, and I went through them one by one. He kept saying no. When I got to me, he just said “bye” and signed off…. The next day he IMed me and asked me who I liked so I IMed him and asked him if he liked me. He said, “yes, why wouldn’t I?”

Not sure if his "Yes" was a "yes, I like you as more than a friend" or a "yes, you're my friend, so of course I like you"

*I said I didn't like anyone at the time

4)His little bro has told me he likes me (multiple times) that he talks about me at home a lot (i don't know if he was joking)

*His brother is 13

5)And there was this band event that he said he would never go to (he's an ex bandie, plus the event was on his bday), when I asked him to attend.. But he showed up anyways

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  1. I know this sounds a little odd, OK?

    But just kiss him.  When you do, you'll find out more about him than anyone could ever tell you.  And it'll answer more questions than you'll care to ask.

    So just do it and see what shakes out.

    Besides, it sounds like this guy's a bit of a challenge.  And it sounds like you like him, doesn't it.  

    Take a chance and see what happens.....

    Good luck


  2. um...yeah he likes you.

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