Does my husband have an affair?

Question

I found in my hubby's work email that he's been writing new co-worker back & forth & asked her to have lunch together and he'd come to her work area. He's been asking her how she was doing & all she wanted from him was car pool & that's why she didn't really respond him after she knew that he couldn't do it because of overtime. Did he really chase her for an affair? Does he love me & regret it after I found it out as he's been extra nice now?

Answer 1

Well sister i would have to say he is not cheating yet but he is about to. Sounds like you need to spend more time together, make a date with him for lunch! Wear something s**y to bed, candle light dinners.. etc... something he is looking for now you are not providing for him like you were before. Better find out before he does cheat!

Answer 2

You will always have to keep your eyes open.  If he tried to do it once, he will probably try to do it again.  I would ask him how he would feel if you did that.  Then tell him the next time you catch him, you will be out of the relationship faster than he can count to three, with no discussion whatsoever!!!  Tell him that you are looking for a real man, not a liar and a cheat!!!  Tell him if he can not be that man, then leave now before you and he invest any more of your lives in a relationship that is doomed in the first place.

Marriage counseling could help.

Answer 3

Don't be harsh on him - that's not exactly evidence.

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Answer 4

Hire a detective and get the work done then you can find out the truth

Answer 5

Don't know.... sounds like he had some kind of interest in her...especially since he's being extra nice to you now.  Something to keep your eye's on !!!!

Answer 6

i dont think he had an affair with the other chick. sometimes men need to talk to other people, and in this case it so happened to be a girl. I thnk he has been extra nice to show u he really cares and that he doesnt want you to think he did anything stupid

Answer 7

Maybe he suffered an attraction to her and realised his mistake, talk to about it in depth.

Answer 8

You don't really know unless you hire one of those spies, he probably is just working with her on a project but you should; approach him and ask

Answer 9

That's why you have to be quiet and watch.  You don't say anything unless you have proof-it may not come, or it may show up-who knows.  Better to wait and watch.  

Answer 10

sound like he is an average guy chasing a bit of tail but getting rejected but make sure he is willing to cheat on you maybe set him up with a hooker and see if he goes for her lol i no its slat but still thats probably what i would do lol and if he does dump the cheating basted  

Answer 11

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