Does my mom care about me?

Question

My family does not like my boyfriend. We live together! My mom lives only 15-20 minutes away and not once has she come to visit me. She only calls me once in a while. Yet my older who has a baby lives with her and she seems to spend a lot of time with them. This past week they called and invited me out of town just the girls, yet sometimes they go places and don't even invite me. What do you guys think?

Answer 1

Yes im sure she loves you and maybe she is tryin to give you the silent treatment to see if you really care about her becouse maybe she feels like you have made the wrong choice and you just dont care anymore yes I know it sound stupid but it may be true and maybe she is afraid if she tries to do stuff with you your boyfriend will get the wrong idea and do something.

hope I helped[:

Answer 2

I think she does, but sucks at showing it.

Answer 3

Try talking to her about it. Maybe its a simple answer that you wouldnt have thought about.

Answer 4

I agree with your mother to hate him, what kind of people who kicked his mother for the sake of his girlfriend and u should be scared too thers's no garntee that he won't make the same thing with as he already did for her mother

Really u must leave him immediatly

Answer 5

Lose your loser boyfriend. You're going to give up your family over some guy who kicked his own mother out of the apartment? Common sense woman. You're mom is probably intimidated by your boyfriend and doesn't want to deal with that.

Answer 6

It sounds that you and your boyfriend are not yet married because you says "boyfriend and live together".  I guess that is one reason, you are not married but live with him considering that he is mean. Well, your mom cares about you.  She just want you to realise something maybe, no offense.  Some parents wants marriage before living together, I guess she really cares don't be bother.  One day you must talk to her about what you feel.

Answer 7

that ur mom does nt like ur boyfreind thats all

Answer 8

Have you asked your mom what she feels/  Is there something wrong with your boy friend. Jealousy,temper attitude. There has to be something wrong. Maybe them s staying away will prevent friction with you.

Answer 9

You know, your mom really loves you, its just she dont want your bf for you, i think your bf have a different kind of attitude so your mom dont want him for you coz she saw things in your bf that really unacceptable, even for me, i dont want to have my sister that kind of bf, I suggest look for another bf whose kind enough. I know that you love that guy but there are things that have to consider, not just your being inlove, sometimes you have to think people around you who really cares about you, coz they know best than your bf does. Hope these works, try to post question again and i will be happy to answer you okey.

Takecare.

Answer 10

My mom said you are "shonga-shonga" because you chose a boyfriend that hurts you and still you love him??(sorry about that)

Your mother loves you because she doesn't want you to be hurt. And in a fact that, you should not live with your bf because he is only your BF! and I don't think your mother would visit you is because that you are still not married! She spends with your older sibling is because they have a baby. They have to take care of it. And it doesn't mean that your mother does not care about you when you are not invited in some outings. But the best thing you should do is to communicate with your mother, face to face, heart to heart.