Does playing hard to get with a male friend/coworker usually backfire?

Question

I'm the pursuer of our friendship, most of the time, but he always is responsive. If I don't hear from him for a couple of weeks, I'm the one who usually initiates contact. Yes, I have a thing for him & I think he does for me. I turned him down a long time ago for two super quick walks to go get a bite to eat because I was too nervous to be with him. But, now I would accept. Just recently one week went by & surprisingly enough, he contacted me saying he hadn't heard from me. I haven't responded and it has been almost three weeks. Will playing hard to get even further make him miss me more or turn him further away? Thx.

Answer 1

I think 3 weeks is WAY too long to wait to call someone.x Just ask him to a movie or a party as a friend if your nervous, or get a group of a friends and plan a night out and invite him along, you never know what could happen!.x

Answer 2

ok when you wait almost 3 weeks it gets to be a waste of time just waiting