Does s*x always feel good?

Question

does s*x ever stop feeling good?

me and my boyfriend had s*x once it of course it was great and we had it again but it didn't feel the same. what could be the problem?

Answer 1

you might be to young to know what your doing, you might have been dry or you might just not been in the mood. Your not going to have the big O all the time .

Answer 2

people have there off days and it messes with there performance nothing to fret over

Answer 3

if you did it pretty much right after you already had s*x, it may not feel as good because your "u know" wasn't lubricating like it did the last time. this happened to me once. i learned that the girl i was with just wouldn't naturally self lube after the first. which made her sore and really didn't feel that great to me either. we went out and purchased a lubricant. there are so many types i cant recommend any because it depends on what you want it to do other than lubing up. some warm as u do it and some have such a smell it turns you on like crazy. i hope this was what you were asking about. if not, sorry i couldn't help. good luck.

Answer 4

its always good for me =( maybe its the guy.....?

Answer 5

he sucks or ur not attracted to him in a physical way

Answer 6

your loosey goosey and he has a

               8=D

  little guy(above)

Answer 7

The world is making s*x such a huge thing, that by the time you experience it for yourself you feel disappointed or like with you it differs. s*x is an emotional experience more than physical. 90% in your head and 10% physical. In my opinion.

Answer 8

No s*x does not always feel good. Myself and other guy friends have agreed with some girls the s*x feels like it was not worth the physical energy we put out and masturbating would have been more fulfilling.  Women like to try and take charge of what act they (him and her) are doing next, some women try to overpower a guy physically and move her body to a position where his p***s feels the best.  A lot of women want to move her hips in a circular motion to maximize the time his p***s is touching her clitoris when to a man this is NOT a good thing.  Men need the in and out/up and down motion mostly.  When getting fellatio men like as much of his p***s in her mouth and her hand on the rest that's not in her mouth but still women like to tongue up and down and all over when constant mouth coverage is one of the key things in a good fellatio job.  

Women are EMOTIONAL creatures and want that MENTAL connection where she feels he and her are "one" s*x starts in the brain.  Your first time may have been a great experience because he played into all your ideas of what you need and expect from s*x.  But now that your putting out he's now putting his own expectations of s*x into the s*x your having.  You only chance of having great s*x is to teach him how to turn you on and get you hot wet and desperate for sexual touching..

Answer 9

oh c**p, really? yeah i'm a virgin and I always thought s*x was always good... hmm.. maybe he was having a bad day and it through off his performance?

Answer 10

Yeah! Unless, you got infection on your genitals!!!

Answer 11

well there could be a lot of things different or wrong but the main thing to remember when you want s*x to feel good is to relax and make sure your comfortable next time try having him rub you or kiss you a lot to get you relaxed and turned on and if its still not that great try lots of foreplay and maybe a different position like doggystyle or get on top but if you relax and get really turned on before s*x it can make it amazing and if that doesen't help e-mail me and ill give you some things to do to help but they take time to explain so e-mail me and have fun.

Answer 12

s*x is tied in to moods, emotions, etc. Think of it this way. If you like chocolate cake, do you want chocolate cake with every meal all the time? No. It's not a great metaphor, but s*x is similar to that. If you're in the mood, and really looking forward to seeing the guy, then it probably will feel great. If you're tired, or grouchy, or whatever, then it's not going to be as good that time.

It also depends on the actual act itself, but that has to do with personal preference and a person's erogenous zones.

Answer 13

i was a virgin and i lost my virginity to my husband. it was all good at first but now i'm bored. i always wonder what it's like to be with someone else. wonder if the s*x would be different or is it all the same ****!?

Answer 14

i was a virgin before i met my boyfriend and weve had s*x about 9 times or so, and it still doesnt feel good to me. hes always the one moaning and im the one laying there in deep pain counting down the seconds till its over. it feels like youre getting a toilet plunger shoved up your v****a and it just keeps going in and out and i usually feel the need to puke. its just about as much fun as having a ramrod push your uterus through your nostrils leaving me to wonder what all the fuss was about. and i heard it only hurts the first time you have s*x. but everytime me and my boyfriend have it, im a virgin all over again which doesnt make sense to me because masturbating is the best feeling in the world.

Answer 15

maybe you need to change the position?:)

Answer 16

If you can't get something off your mind, it could prevent you from being in the mood to relax and let your body takeover....or he's not doing his job in the foreplay department.