Does s*x frequecy decline when a wife gains weight? ?

Question

Does s*x frequecy decline when a wife gains weight? ?

Answer 1

Yes cause no man wants to have s*x with a fat whale.

That's why i take very good care of myself for my husband.

Answer 2

Yeah.  It definatly does.  He doesn't want her.  She doesn't want to be "exposed" and has low self-esteem.

Answer 3

Usually yes.  Most men aren't interested as much HOWEVER, it depends on the woman and how she handles the weight gain.  Some women will flourish and have confidence about themselves - others not so much. Many, many, many complain that they 'lost it' when their wives gained weight and didn't try to lose it...key point - try to lose it.

Answer 4

On whose part?

If the wife feels unattractive for whatever reason her eagerness to have s*x may decline, feeling unsexy and the like.  The man should reassure her otherwise.

As for the man, that depends. Some men like larger women, some men like slightly chubby women, some like normal, some like bone-thin.

Who knows? Too little info.  

Answer 5

yep,well 4 me it did anyway. meds i have to take made me go from 140 to 180 in 18 months and because i hate my body i have NO s*x drive at all. been 2gether 7 years and until 6 months ago we had s*x 5-6xs a week! now it's about 3xs monthly.  

Answer 6

its up to the couple.  The woman is going to feel less attractive and self-conscious,  if the husband is really great and convinces her she is as s**y as ever, her confidence will stay high and the s*x will go on as usual.  Don't use words like "still attractive"  Stay at attentive and don't make any comparisons to the former weight.  The self worth also makes it easier foe the wife to lose the extra pounds.  I know, I've  been there.  Love to you and your wife.

Answer 7

I gained a little after we got married...but that's because I'm a stress eater. (in one year i graduated from university, got mairried, moved to a new city, three deaths in the family, and two new jobs...that would make anyone stressed!)

But my husband doesnt like it. He understands though. SO we as a couple are working on it.

Answer 8

I have heard of age. Gaining weight is a debatable question because some men love full figure women and enjoy what comes their way.

Answer 9

Yep, it's a no win situation, don't even bother mentioning it, cuz it will just hurt her feelings.  

Answer 10

Yes for a few reasons. Most important is normally she does not feel attractive. No matter how much you tell her she is if she does not see it it will not matter. The other reason is she is more tired w extra weight so her stamina is not as it normally would be. After my children I did want to as much until I list all the weight and got back to normal. It si so important for a women to feel attractive in order to want s*x. You could talk to her about it openly and honestly. her know it has slowed down and ask why? Ask if it is you....this will open the door for honesty. Sometimes it can trigger in her that it effects you as well if she does not want to.  

Answer 11

men dont find there wife as attractive and the wife dosent feel good about herself nude when heavy.  so the frequency declines and when u got the extra weight u cant move as good

Answer 12

I think it really depends on how the relationship starts.  IF you start really fit and then become bigger both people may have a hard time excepting it.  I myself am heavier then when I was first married.  But I've never been a tiny size.  It really depends on your confidence and what your man is attracted to.  We have had no decline in our s*x life-in fact  it's gotten better as we age.  ;)