Does she hate me, and if she does can you tell me why?

Question

Ok, here is how it goes...

So let me start by saying that she is this popular chick, like the hottest in the school. I'm that kid who looks like some stoner, who fails school (i get decent grades). Anyways, so she started talking to me when second semester started, and it was just a friendship (it not became any greater). She helped me with my problems, and vice versa. Anyways, she said all this stuff like "OH! We'll hangout this summer for sure!" and like everytime I IM her, she just ignores it. She acts like I didn't say anything. At this concert, she completely ignored me, and didn't even say Hi.

Please help, she was a good friend.

Answer 1

i've learned that usually when i think that someone is avoiding me or mad at me i can tell from the littlest things. just fromthat u can tell she isn't a good friend anymore. even if she starts hangin w/ u after that u'll know she's reliable. Good luck =)

Answer 2

okay firstly you have to gather up some confidence to talk to her the next opportunity to get. just say hello to her in a friendly way. dont be too confident because you'll make her think you are cocky and therefore she'll lose interest. if she says shes "fine" which i garentee she will, just say "cool. so hows things?" she'll probably say "good" or something along those lines. she'll minimalise communication with you because she's probably not to keen on talking to you (no offence) but because you have now opened up communication lines with her, in the future she'll be more confident to talk to you. just remember women want respect so you have to make sure you treat her VERY nicely. after a while, when you establish frequent conversation over a period of a few days, dont worry bout being ignored on that IM she'll talk to you alright. good luck mate

Answer 3

I'm with nickipet on this one. I'm assuming her social status more important then building true friendships up with real people. Do not feel bad about yourself. If she is so busy worrying about what everyone else thinks of her then maybe she isn't good enough to be your friend.

Answer 4

She doesn't hate you, she's a snob.  She talked to you because she wanted/needed someone to talk to that was outside her circle that wouldn't come around and use it later to backstab, or she needed to vent about her current friends.  If she was seen talking to you/hanging out with you after school/during the summer, it might hurt her so called "Social status" in school.

I'd forget about her and find some other nice sweet girl to hang with.

Answer 5

She doesn't hate you! From a girls point of view....I think that since its a new school year,she may thing that you maybe have changed your mind or just changed in general. Do you guys have any of the same classes together? Because if you do, and you end up sitting near, don't strike up a conversation right away. first just offer a smile and a "hi," and see how she responds, then take it from there. Another thing though, is that she cares to much about what her friends think of her. Or, if you have the guts, copy and paste this with the answers on it, and slip it anonymously in her locker...although, just from a girl, i'd take off the "hottest in the school" off before doing it. =] If none of this works at all, email her...tell her everything, lay it all out, and give her a few days or a week to respond. If you don't get anything, then, do what you want after that...hope i helped!  

Answer 6

maybe she doesnt hate you maybe she just wants to hang out with other people, maybe she didnt feel well at the concert. maybe if shes doing that shes not the right one for you. move on

Answer 7

she hate u

Answer 8

this is complex. I think she does like you, but that you aren't acceptable to her goup. So there are times she pretends not to like you or to even know you.  this is sad.

maybe in 5 years she will be able to know what she likes without getting her friends approval.

Answer 9

okay, i think you should IM her being like, "what's happened to us? did i do something to hurt you?" and if she doesn't reply, then she's not worth your time. if so, she's immature and if she's going to handle this by not even REPLYING to you and completely ditching you without warning, she's not a reliable or good friend to have in your life. she seems really immature, not even talking to you at all. i think she's a dangerous friend to have. those popular people can be risky. i mean, some are fine, but a lot of times they act sweet, but at heart, they're insecure and therefore mean.