Does she have a eating disorder or im i being parnoid?

Question

okay i have a eating disorder and im getting better got out of the hospital see therapist 2x a week ect..but now that school back ive notice this girl in my grade lost a lot of weight and i ask her about it in private and she didn't saying anything just the fact that i said others were noticing and she ask me what did they say like more concern with that?..how can i open up i told her i won't say anything and i know how she feels?..she wasn't fat before just normal now she really skinny..but im not sure she has it..because she will wear tank tops and short shorts and be fine with it...do you think im overly parnoid or do you think im on to something..but i can't watch and see if she has any habbits with food because i have to eat with a nurse because of my issues..what should i do im so worried that i can't sleep?

Answer 1

yooooo. Your a cool chick. I hope you have a successful life  

Answer 2

First of all Congratulations for being on your way to a healthy life! That is so wonderful. I am proud of you and i don't know you. lol.

  

It is normal to notice a thing like when you have been through the same thing. You tend to notice things that others wouldn't. You know the signs and you know what to pick up on. Maybe if u can't keep an eye on her get your friends to just peek in on her during lunch. If you do that and you believe that there is a problem i would pull her aside and tell her that you have been through this and if she has a problem she can share it with you. Make her feel comfortable with you. Let her know that you are not accusing or judging. If she is not open to this and you HONESTLY think there is a prob then i would suggest tellin the nurse and have the teachers or another nurse checking on her during the lunch period. If she has a problem then she does need help and she needs someone who isn't going to sit by and just let her do it. Let her know that you are there for her.