Does she have the right to get mad at me??

Question

well.. my girlfriend got mad at me for something stupid.. i would like to know if she had the right to get mad at me or not... here it goes.. well.. one my of my homegirls (shes like a sis 2 me) ask me to send a pic of me to her phone.. ok.. im like.. y? and shes like you'll see... im ok.... well.. later that day.. i went on too myspace and i realised my homegirl add the pic i sent her to one of her albums tittled "friendz" ok... she has my pic and lots of guys and girls pic on thad album.. alright.. my girlfriend found out and she got mad at me.. shes like.. i see u can send pics 2 ur friends.. i can too now??... i didnt say nothing.. i told her do what u gotta do.. but that pic aint nothing bad.. just a pic of me while i was at work.. and well.. shes mad at me now

Answer 1

She has the right to get mad and you have the right to tell her she's a freak.

Answer 2

speaking as a girl if my boyfriend sent a pic to someone i would get irritated but not mad .. as long as your not that naked or something you know?  

Answer 3

sounds like she is jealous and insecure

Answer 4

no she doesnt tell her that it wasnt a bad picture.!..unless it really was...how old are you?

Answer 5

I dont think she should get mad at you at all that's no big deal...it's just a pic...it's not like a messed up pic...and it's not like you are cheating on her or something...the other girl is your friend and she shouldn't get mad...but that is just what i think

Answer 6

i think she is being a bit possesive... i have lots of male friends who i email swap pics with etc and my fella never even asks questions he trusts me completely..maybe she has had some bad experiences with her ex's give her reassurance but if she carries on then i think you need to asses the relationship...hope it works out :)

Answer 7

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Okay, she doesn't have the right to get mad at you without giving an explanation first.

Does she feel insecure about your relationship? have you said something recently that makes her feel that way?

But girls like her won't feel any better. but don't apologize, not yet. It makes you look guilty. and why would you be guilty if you didn't do anything wrong?

Answer 8

shes being an immature young girl. she shouldnt be mad at you but if i was younger i think i wouldve gotten mad too- u handled it right by not arguing with her. maybe if you explain to her how u feel itll make her feel better- also hang out with ur gf and ur friends that are girls then they will be more like mutual friends and she shouldnt get so jealous. but u are allowed to have girl-friends and its not like she made an album just for you or pix of you and her- that other girl didnt do anything wrong either- your gf will get over it- and if she doesnt shes being TOO immature and thats not fair to u- tell her to think about it if ther roles were reversed, if a guy friend of hers did the same thing- she should realize after that

Answer 9

if your just friends, no there is nothing 2 b upset about

Answer 10

No, the woman never has the right to get made at the man in the relationship.  

Answer 11

just try to explain to her what is going on and maybe she will understand. im sure she has close guy friends to. or just put yourself in her position. would you want her sending pics to her guy friends? i hop this helps

Answer 12

i think that she overreacted a bit, and if she really trusted you she wouldn't care who you send pictures to.  

Answer 13

well she is overacting a little bit ... You just sent pics , and it is not like u ars sleeping with her..  

Answer 14

smack that ***** into place. then **** yo' sis as revenge. b*****s need to be straightened out  

Answer 15

Wow... She's a *****. She's probably thinks the other girl likes you and that makes her uncomfortable. But she shouldn't be flipping out like that. Tell her to chill and that it's not a big deal.

Answer 16

Well i guess.that girl you have sent pictures to has something to do with you.Did you tell your gf that that girlwas your crush before or something like that?Because if yes..,then i think shes just insecure about it.Be patient..,Let the love alive!

Answer 17

no she doesnt

Answer 18

yes because she thinks your cheatin on her.

Answer 19

Your friend obviously has an insecurity issue.  To clear the air you might want to let her/him know that you were asked to forward on the picture.  Sitting letting it stew is not a good way to handle things.  Take the first step even though you don't think it's you fault.  It will make you the better person!!!

Answer 20

let me guess your between the age of 14 and 17..get over it its a picture a lot of my friends have pictures of me..Its not that big of a deal diff. if you had your shirt off or something..

Answer 21

It sounds like you haven't let her send pictures of herself.

Answer 22

Yeah really, how old are you?

As long as it wasn't something provocative, I don't see the big deal.

Answer 23

She has the right. But she shouldn't get angry. For an issue that small she shouldn't have gotten so angry.  

Answer 24

tell her sure there is nothing wrong with sending pics to your friends, your girl may have some issues  

Answer 25

LOL are you guys like 12 year olds in love if not you sure seem like it

Answer 26

It seams like a small reason to get mad I wouldn't but I'm not her.Let her be mad she is entitled to her feelings. You don't have to agree you don't even have to understand it.She will cool down and get over it. I wouldn't worry.

Answer 27

no dump her she sounds crazy

Answer 28

She does not have the right to get mad at you over something stupid. You just sent a picture of yourself and its on your friends myspace. So what? I do see how she got angry. Maybe she got jealous. Or maybe she was worried. Your friend may have sent it to a whole bunch of other people. You should ask her why she got so mad. Listen to her points and see it through her point of view.

Answer 29

she is a stupid c unt.  drop her

Answer 30

So she is mad at you,she will get over it,you sound like you and your gf are very young and foolish.

Answer 31

sounds like your gf is insecure.  if you haven't given her reason to not trust you then 'no' she shouldn't have gotten angry.  but if you have...then you brought that on yourself.  but sounds to me like she has trust issues and needs to find some maturity, tuck it under belt and grow up