Does she like me or is she trying to scare me off after the first date?

Question

I took her out yesterday to an amusement park and I think we had a great time. We had great conversation, eye contact, touching and it seemed she was physically getting closer to me the whole date. I mean I had a great time, but I am not sure if she is just being nice or really into me. I have known her for a long time and we are good friends and she is like super nice to everyone she meets so I don't know how to read her. However, her phone was ringing constantly and she invited her sister and her boyfriend about halfway through our date (mind you her sister and her bf conveniently were going to the same park that day). Plus she invited me to dinner with her Aunt!! We never ended up going though because her sister didn't want to leave. Is she trying to scare me off or something? I mean maybe she wanted to introduce me to her family because they are super close, but I mean on the first date? Is she serious? It didn't diminish our date any. We still had a great time, even with her sister there, but that can't be normal for a first date with a friend.

Answer 1

talk to her about it or jokingly ask her if shes trying to scare you off

Answer 2

Did you ever watch that TV show "Everybody Loves Raymond" where Raymond's family is always enmeshed in his life?--welcome to the female version.

Don't know if she's trying to scare you off per se, but at least you are getting a glimpse about how your time with her would be if you went out with her again or if you became more serious.  

She may be scared of intimacy and inviting others is a way to lessen the fear.  So, if you got weird vibes, I'd back off a bit.  May only get worse.

Answer 3

Your friend sounds like a social butterfly. You seem to be a close friend of hers. You could ask her directly, and see what she says. Even if it does get awkward that will fade away anyway since you are good friends. Something close to this happened to me before. Just ask her directly.

Answer 4

I don't think she's trying to scare you off.  I guess I'm intrepreting this as, she really wants to just keep hanging out with you, and will use any excuse to continue doing so.

Best way to figure out if she does like you, simply ask her on another date, if she seems excited about the idea, your golden, if she seems reluctant or obviously is making excuses, I'd let it lie.

Best of luck!

Answer 5

If she is willing to take you to a family members house, that's a good thing.

Quit worrying so much.

Answer 6

That's a little weird, to be honest. Why would she want her sister and bf to impose on your date? I would think she'd want to be alone with you. Your best bet is to ask her out again. If you get a yes, chances are she was just nervous yesterday. If she says no…well, you know where you stand. And if you do go out again, it would be very smart for you to make your feelings for her clear. Otherwise you might never move out of the “friends zone.”