Does she not consider my feelings at all? ?

Question

We have been together 2 years, and she has started changing. We use to be very close, and lately she has started going out with her friends like everyday. She will spend an entire week just basically living with them, and she wont call or anything. Every now and then she will spend the night with me, and then tell me she will call me, and then she just disapears for like a week. Ive tried talking to her about this and she keeps telling me sorry, she wont do it again, but she does like almost every time. When we are together she assures me she loves me, and doesnt want to break up with me. Yet, as soon as i, or her leave, she is like gone.

I really love her and i dont want to break up, but she just doesnt try anymore, and while shes out, im at home freaking out. I cant focus on anything else because im so afraid of losing her. Im starting to fail my courses, and miss work. I just feel so terrible all the time, and its almost like she doesnt care.

Answer 1

stop being such a girl about it.......go out with your friends and make her jealous because that allways works once she sees that you are going out and having fun she is going to want to spend more time with you

Answer 2

find out her reason for acting like this. may be she is bored and wants space or has her reasons for acting like this. Know you have you life to live dont put it on hold for someone living their lives. live and let live ok. Good luck.

Answer 3

roleplaying is cool and all, but you need to stop being the girl all the time.

once your gf starts hanging around you all the time, youll be wishing she was out all the time.

Answer 4

it could be that she's so secure in your love for her, that she's starting to take you for granted or it could mean she that she really doesn't care.

either ways, it's bad for you.

complain one more time to her about her attitude, if there's no change within one week, ignore her. give her a few days then tell her you need time away from her to re-evaluate your feelings for her and decide if you want to continue seeing her.

if her attitude doesn't change, stop worrying about losing her...you've lost her alread!.

if she still cares about you,she'll try and make it work, but if you want my honest opinion, i think her heart isn't in the relationship anymore.

Answer 5

OK SHE SOUNDS LIKE MY ***** BUT ABOUT HER LEAVING FOR A WEEK AND BEING OUT WITH FRIENDS MAN IF YOU DONT RELIZE SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING BUT BEFORE I PUT BAD STUFF IN YOUR HEAD SHE MAY ALSO JUST NOT HAVING FUN WITH YOU AND PROBABLY WANTS TO HAVE FUN WITH HWR FRIENDS HOW OLD ARE YOU GUYS

Answer 6

im sorry to say this but you have to break up with her if she doesnt pay attension to you its not worth getting fired and failing.  and you dont know what shes doing with her "friends" i would break up with her

Answer 7

Do you want to accept the crumbs that she throws to you, or do you want to have a good relationship? If it's the latter, you have to leave because it's not going to be with her.

Answer 8

Shes cheating on you man, but wants to keep you around while shes figuring herself out.  Sorry to break it to ya