Does she owe me one, or more?

Question

She cheated and we got counseling and stayed together BUT don't you think she owes me the opportunity to go find some babe to bang for a while. I figure I'm good for at least five or nights out with no questions asked. I mean what's good for the goose is good for the gander, right, What is a gander anyway?

Answer 1

I'm ponderin' you takin' a gander at a sweet young thing to philander with and the thought JUST AIN'T PRETTY.

Answer 2

Well, if you don't know what it is... how can you use it?! You can't say that and then now know what it is... sorry, doesn't work that way.

PLUS, you made a vow to forsake all others... remember? You chose to stay with her, after she broke her vows to you... that doesn't give you a gold star and a green light to cheat...  

Answer 3

nah if you guys love each other neither would wanna cheat, maybe look lil deeper here in the realtionship.

If I was in yer shoes I'd take the high road ;)

Answer 4

check out the question I posted a little while ago. I don't think you have anything to gain from cheating back on her....even if "what goes around comes around".

What if you got the other woman pregnant...that would be BAD, and you and I both know it...

Answer 5

"What is a gander anyway?"

LMFAO!

Funny as h**l!

Answer 6

A gander is an immature child that thinks what is good for the goose is good for the gander.  

Obviously what marriage counseling you two went through did not work well on you.

NO you do not have a free pass to do to her what she did to you.

If anything, show her that you are above that and that you truly forgive her AND can drop it.

Answer 7

I see your still mad as hel* at your wife and the counseling didn't help any

You don't love her after suffering the ultimate betrayal.

It's tough getting over this hon!

I think you should instead file for a divorce as she has hurt you

so very much so you will never forgive her why linger on.

There are nice women that will not cheat out there after your divorce

you know.  

Answer 8

What a waste of time and money that counselling was.

Answer 9

Just go right ahead, guy, and bang away.    Then your wife will divorce you, take half of everything and find a real man who will keep her happy.