.Does she sound good? what kind of relationship do u think i need to have with her ? ?

Question

tis my sister in law( husbands young brothers wife)

she acts quite sweet most of the times . will spend evenings having tea with me and back biting about her "sisters" mom in law's or her relatives .

oh she gifts all the time.

..( in nut shell)

pink has been my colour ever since i got married.

she got married and she made all her things pink after seeing my clothes etc etc. initially she wore just black or orange.

anyways after her daughter was born again all pink.

Yesterday we were in market ..and she was buying a tray for her 8 months year old girl ( to keep medicine etc)

she took out a bad pink . Like I would tell my mom i just said.." there is to much of pink already ....try sumthin else or your gal might hate pink after she grows up"

( i was friendly n sweet)

She snarled back at me ..""" Oh have you started hating pink"?

it was so annoying ... im just kind of pissed off .

i told her that well you were not a pink person bfr u tied the knot u still like ur black?

she dint reply .

im just trying to say ..she acts funny .. gifting all the time and yet so sharp tongued.

Answer 1

yes she is strange.. but fear not!! there is one in every family!!

Answer 2

Go on with the situation don't take it otherwise.

Answer 3

Pink, black, orange, who owns colours? Maybe she really likes you and so started trying to take over some of your tastes, like the colour pink...you don't own that colour and sure were not the first to ever like it! Take it easy! I'd say she just admires you in a way and tries to be a bit like you...that's a compliment! Your comment probably got a sharp reaction cause she realizes that you are aware of her copying and she has a bad conscience about it?? I'd say she really wants to be your friend, but is the same insecure than you are...stop fussing about colours and build up a healthy, trusting friendship by talking open to her, next time she reacts sharp confront her in a calm way and tell her you don't mean it bad! Maybe she'll be your best mate soon?

Good luck!

Answer 4

She sounds a bit psychotic.