Does someone "playing hard to get" work on you? ?

Question

Does someone "playing hard to get" work on you? ?

Answer 1

Depends if it's worth it

Answer 2

No =)

Answer 3

Nope it doesn't. I stop trying and go shy off and go talk to other girls.  

Answer 4

I'm never the pursuer...

I'm the pursued.

But if the tables were turned and they played hard to get, id probably not bother.

id probably also take it the wrong way and think they diddn't like me.

coz im rather paranoid

Answer 5

No, I haven't got the attention span..lol!

Answer 6

Never.  I presume they are not interested.

Answer 7

nope! but then i left the dating game 6 years ago when i met my husband

Answer 8

h**l stops them playing with themselves i suppose.

Answer 9

I used to think I never would fall for that then once I did ... learnt never to do it again now get on with it or leave ...... why play games .... although some are nice those ones just do damage  

Answer 10

Na i'm too old to be playing mind games now. The way i see it is that if they are interested they will come back if they know you are. That said i suppose it depends on how much i like someone :)

Answer 11

No it doesn't work on me anymore...It is to much of a mind game thing where to many mixed messages get sent out... :-)

Answer 12

Usually no.  However, when my husband and I first starting dating, he was all about playing hard to get.  Somehow, I must have known that he was the one for me, becuase for the first time in my life, I actually did do a little chasing!  It worked for us....it only took about 6 months for us to get pretty serious, and less than 2 years later we were married.

Answer 13

Depends if I really like the person or not!

Answer 14

No it's boring and waists time . If you want it just ask .

Answer 15

Well, It's gotta be hard to be good.

Answer 16

i like the chase if a girl plays hard to get, but  also like to play hard so i guess you no they really like you  

Answer 17

I'll play harder to get so everyone gets annoyed

Answer 18

No i just get bored.

Answer 19

Nah, I'm too old for mind games, just tell it straight is what I say! : )

Answer 20

Nah, i get bored and move on, quickly i may add!

Answer 21

Nope, I just move on!

Answer 22

Nah i love to see their face when it backfires

Answer 23

No

Answer 24

i don't think anyone's done that with me

or if they did they played too hard and i didn't realize they liked me

Answer 25

No...I have to work on her and generally can't be bothered...there's plenty more fish in the sea.

Answer 26

No wouldn't waste my time, not into mind games at this stage of my life, couldn't be bother....do like bit of intrigue though keeps it interesting....

Answer 27

Sometimes, what people see as " playing hard to get" is actually the person saying " I'm not interested. "  Not everyone believes a person just isn't interested and some insist on trying to change the person's mind. When it doesn't work, they are then accused of playing games and playing hard to get.  : )

Answer 28

no. playing hard to get works really well for stalkers though....