Does summer really change those crazy strong...?

Question

feelings? one of my friend's step-brother's stared majorly flirting with me last january. i flirted back and one day he was talking to his friend and he said that he wanted to go out w/ m and i could tell he was stuck on me. i'm pretty shy and he's not the boldest either so we never went out. and on the last day of school he said he would miss me and i gave him this great smile. and so then this past week has been our first week of school, and i've past him multiple times at lunch throwing away trah and he hasn't said one word to me, not one smile, i haven't even seen himmlook at me but i know he's seen me i mean how could he not?! so did summer really change that much? did he loose interest? is he waiting for me to say something? and btw we don't have each others #s.

Answer 1

Yeah, we guys are pretty basic and cave-like when young and shy and around our friends. I've always said ( trust me, THIS is from experience ) that MOST guys don't " get it " until about 30 years old and MOST women don't " get it " until about 24 years of age. It seems to be a good rule of thumb.

Even though we mature and lack control of our raging hormones in our youth ( man, I miss THOSE days, errr night, err umm noooo... I HAVE to be responsible..)  we do mature enough to not always embarrass ourselves or the women we love.

Eventually.

As far as this guy? Let it go and move on, if he really is sincere, he'll figure out just what to do to sincerely capture your heart and emotions.

Answer 2

I'd just go up to him very casually and say hi...Ask how his summer was, what he did etc...Make small talk, give him the smile again and walk away. Treat him like any other friend you haven't seen all summer and see how he reacts....If he starts acting the same again, then you know he still likes you, if not, well then you can always just keep treating him like a friend and try to privately get over him. Chances are that he is shy and maybe embarrassed for what he said.  

Answer 3

ya

maybe something changed his mind or something like that.

does he still like you?

talk with him,Do not show your craving and desperation - no matter how bad you want him  back. This can only make your situation worse. Be an independent person - YOU are fully responsible for your own happiness. You don't need to depend on some other person to experience happiness. Learn to cultivate this attitude and your partner will be the one who is scared of losing you.

Be the person that your partner was once deeply in love with - correct all your bad habits and mistakes.

Respect your partner's choices and freedom. Let him do whatever he please and let him know that you will always be there.

ontact him, impress him in all fields