Does the guy not like me?

Question

Ok i have been on three dates with this guy and he had not held my hand or kissed me! Am i wanting to move to fast? Could it be he feels uncomfortable with our height difference(i am 5'8" and he is 5'1")? Could it be because we are different cultures and he feels uncomfortable? Our last date was last night and we communicate really well and get alone so i don't really know and i know i have good hygene so thats not a problem! This is the first guy i have gone on an actual date with! Any advise? Am i overreacting?

Answer 1

give it time

Answer 2

maybe it is the height difference i mean i wouldn't date someone shorter than me, maybe he feels awkward.... different cultures could also be it maybe he's creeped out or something no offense, he could also think of you more as a good friend? be open with him ask him how he feels about really feels about you.  

Answer 3

I just overreacting its ok he wants to he is just respecting you

Answer 4

He's probably embarrased to make a move, dont worry about it

Answer 5

Yes, you're over-reacting: calm down. :-)

If he wasn't interested he wouldn't be going on dates with now would he? Perhaps he wants to take things very slow.

Answer 6

Could be all of the above things... although he is still taking you on dates which means he must like you. My guess is that he just doesn't have the balls to go for a kiss.

Answer 7

Some guys just take time to make a move.  Maybe you should try to make a move on him.  I had to initiate everything with my fiance.  Try going slow with it and see how he reacts.  Next time you are with him, play with his fingers and see if he will let you hold his hand.  Go from there.