Does the mom of your baby have the right to be in your love life business?

Question

Cause we were dating and all,then she got pregnant the first time and had a miscarriage and we broke up 2 months later...now she comes from out of now where and says she laid and she didnt have a miscarriage...I understand about the bringing them around bad people and the drugs and diseases...I'm just talking like who I cant and can date and snooping on everything we do and say to each other...

Answer 1

It depends on if it is affecting the child.  She shouldn't be able to tell you whom to date, but if that person is not a positive influence on your child, then she does.  You probably shouldn't have much influence on each other's lives at all, except when dealing with the child.  Just make sure that you treat each other with respect around the child.

Answer 2

if she's the ne your supposed to be lovin yes

andif her child is going to be exposed to somone she thinks is not suitable then she has a right to say yes or no.

Answer 3

I am guessing that you are male, and no longer together with your baby's mom. If that is the case, then no. She can, however, be concerned about any diseases that you may contract, incase your child even needs a blood transfusion or something. If she is still in love with you, she will constantly fight with you over who you are with and what you are doing with them.

Answer 4

IF you bring these women around 'the mom of your baby' 's  child, then yes she certainly does have a right.  If the objects of your affection do drugs, drink, lack structure, discipline and other qualities needed to be a decent example, she can certainly make a case against *you* in a court of law based on your choice of women and who you expose her child to.

If you don't being them around your child, then it's your own business.

But choose women very carefully...

Answer 5

well kinda yes and no....the mother has every right to b concerned who her child is around...but if she is just being spitefull....my advice is to not bring your child around someone unless you are serious, and thinking long term. But no matter what the babies momma will always b in the picture!

Answer 6

No, not unless it interferes with your ability to parent effectively. For example, if you started neglecting your children because of your "love life business," then she could get CPS involved. But ordinarily, she has no right to say who you date.

Answer 7

she has a right to know who is around the child and unless the person is a bad example then that is about it.  Just keep a open dialogue and eventually things will settle.  I am sorry she wasn't truthful that can't really be helping matters any.