Does the pain ever go away

Question

when i was 16 i got pregnant. and i lost the baby when i was 6 months pregnant. i'm 23 now with 3 kids. i was fighting with my sister in law and she brought it up. does the pain of looing a baby go away

Answer 1

Lost of anything, never goes away.....but your attitude will help cope and make all the difference.  Everything happens for a reason, try and focus your positive energy on today and the future, not the past.  I know it is easier said than done.  Even though we may never understand the "why's", we have to learn to accept things we have no control over.  Be thankful for the children you have now and the things around you.  I have a friend that has been trying for 8 yrs to have a child and probably will never have one.  You have been blessed with three - embrace and enjoy!  Wish you the best on your road to recovery.

Answer 2

I am so sorry for your loss, I never experienced this but I know someone who did, and no it never goes away, it gets better with time, but know in your heart that you have three healthy children and that this baby probably had health problems and maybe wouldnt have done well if born, things happen for a reason and this is something that you wont just "get over" but pain seems to become more of acceptance over time, I will pray for you and your children to remain healthy and strong, god bless you

Answer 3

No, but you have to be gratefull what you have and remember that everything happens for a reason.  

My friend was told by her Doc, "be gratefull that it happened now, instead of when the child was 6 months or 6 years old."  The comment hurt her at the time, but she understands now that she has a 10 year old.  She thought that it was hard to loose a baby at 8 months pregnant, she can't even imagine what she would do if she was to loose her 10 yr old.