Does this boy like me??

Question

1) -His little bro has told me he likes me/has a crush on me multiple times that he talks about me at home a lot (his bro is 13)

2)-He IMed saying he was going to the movies and that I maybe I could go too

-I thought it was w/ our bunch of friends so I said yes (thought we were carpooling)

-When his family's car pulled up, his whole family was in it!

-Went to the movies w/ his family they sat behind us (he and I sat together)

-His mom said "don't think we're spying on you or anything!"

*What's THAT ^ supposed to mean??

3) -I told him to come to a band event he said he would never b/c he quit band (hated it) and that it was his bday

-He showed up anyways

4) -I asked him who he liked (via IM) b/c one of my friends liked him

-He made me guess

-I narrowed it down to the girls in the flute section

-Eliminated them to me when I said "is it me?", he said "bye"

-Next day I asked him if he liked me, he said, "yes, why wouldn't I?"

*Don't know if it meant "yes, as friends" or "yes, more than friends"

5) *This is what confuses me

-The last crush he had was for 3 years on this girl (he never dated her, and he's never had a gf)

-EVERYONE knew who he liked he admitted it all the time it was totally obvious

-So if he liked me, wouldn't he do the same thing???

*He doesn't hang out w/ that many girls

Sorry this is so long

If you're going to tell me that we're acting like we're 10, please don't comment

Thanks!

Answer 1

I think so too that he likes you but he is just shy to say it and as u answered my question, I would say do you like him? if you do then you should just say it..

Answer 2

umm, ask him? I can't comment any further because this does sound like a junior high school situation and I only remember how to communicate as an adult.

Answer 3

He likes you he is just shy

Answer 4

His brother could have been messing around... At teenage ages, they can rarely be trusted as reliable sources of information. Especially if it's about their sibling... It sounds like his mom was encouraging him to treat the movie as a date. The guessing who he liked on IM sounds like he definitely liked you. He might not be so forward about it because of what happened to him last time: He never even dated her. He doesn't want the same thing to happen this time... He might be shy about it because he doesn't want the whole school to know. Last time word got around, he might've been made fun of or felt bad because nothing ever happened with that girl.

I say yes, he likes you. Go for it.