I have been going out with this girl for a few weeks now but only as friends since I have been to afraid to make a move out of fear of rejection and obviously I dont want to ruin our friendship. Im tired of worrying about this because she is the first girl in a very long time I have actually really liked and I want to move on and tell her already. The only problem is I have been getting alot of mixed signals which are the main reasons I havnt made a move yet.
Here are a few examples:
1) She always says yes to going out with me, and if she can't make it she will give me another day instead of just blowing me off completely.
2) She gives me compliments like saying I have nice eyes and smell really good and all that sh*t.
3) She started liking movies and music that I put her on to.
4) We always seem to really hit it off whenever we are together and we are great friends.
5) We have broken the physical contact barrier in non-sleazy ways.
6) She sent me a message the other day telling me I was in her dream just out of the blue, I dont know what that is supposed to mean.
Mixed signals:
1) Most of the time whenever we go out she invites he friends along without even asking me, which was fine for a while because I know her friends anyway but it sucks now because I rarely get chances to tell her about how I feel towards her.
2) I am the one who always has to call her. She always replies and agrees to do something with me but I always
2) She seems oblivious to the hints that I give her about the way I feel. I give her gifts, like burnt movies and CD's, nothing to over the top still very casual, give her my jumper when she is cold, always give her eye contact etc. you know the hints.
So what I am asking is do you think that this girl likes me or is it wishful thinking? Should I make a move and if so how can i change things from being friends to a relationship? What should I say? What are some more tips to help me discover how she really feels? An what can I do to help her realise that I like her? I mean most girls would have taken the hint by now. But most importantly what can I say to get her alone to make sure she isnt just going to invite some of her friends?
I really need help its killing me! Thanks guys
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