Does this girl like me? What should I do? (Its complicated, first decent answer gets best answer)?

Question

Soz this is so long guys but it is complicated.

I have been going out with this girl for a few weeks now but only as friends since I have been to afraid to make a move out of fear of rejection and obviously I dont want to ruin our friendship. Im tired of worrying about this because she is the first girl in a very long time I have actually really liked and I want to move on and tell her already. The only problem is I have been getting alot of mixed signals which are the main reasons I havnt made a move yet.

Here are a few examples:

1) She always says yes to going out with me, and if she can't make it she will give me another day instead of just blowing me off completely.

2) She gives me compliments like saying I have nice eyes and smell really good and all that sh*t.

3) She started liking movies and music that I put her on to.

4) We always seem to really hit it off whenever we are together and we are great friends.

5) We have broken the physical contact barrier in non-sleazy ways.

6) She sent me a message the other day telling me I was in her dream just out of the blue, I dont know what that is supposed to mean.

Mixed signals:

1) Most of the time whenever we go out she invites he friends along without even asking me, which was fine for a while because I know her friends anyway but it sucks now because I rarely get chances to tell her about how I feel towards her.

2) I am the one who always has to call her. She always replies and agrees to do something with me but I always

2) She seems oblivious to the hints that I give her about the way I feel. I give her gifts, like burnt movies and CD's, nothing to over the top still very casual, give her my jumper when she is cold, always give her eye contact etc. you know the hints.

So what I am asking is do you think that this girl likes me or is it wishful thinking? Should I make a move and if so how can i change things from being friends to a relationship? What should I say? What are some more tips to help me discover how she really feels? An what can I do to help her realise that I like her? I mean most girls would have taken the hint by now. But most importantly what can I say to get her alone to make sure she isnt just going to invite some of her friends?

I really need help its killing me! Thanks guys

Answer 1

You have to just straight up ask her out somewhere and tell her that you want to be alone with her. that's when you make your move, don't come on too strong but let her know you like her a lot. Also it's kind of hard but girls really go for a guy that isn't too easy, so try not calling her for awhile and waiting for her to call... that ones tough though I know

Answer 2

yes you need to make your move

shes probably waiting for i t

and im in a similar sit uation except im the girl and i waiting for him to make the move

she will be so happy

Answer 3

the longer u wait the worse u will feel.

you could write a song and put it on a cd and stick it in her locker about how u feel about her.

Answer 4

It sounds like your pretty deep in the "friend zone" now. Chances are she no longer sees you the way you see her. The way it sounds, its not that she is giving you mixed signals, she just doesnt realize that you like her. I only say this from expierience, i liked my best friend for awhile but i got over it bc i knew she didnt like me. almost everything with you happened with me. except that normally she is the one calling me.

Im sorry buddy, just make sure you stay out of the friend zone next time you find a girl you like.

Answer 5

hoolllyy **** thats alot of reading lol ok wow uuhhh i would jus say would you like to go out with me sometime lol get it over with the worst thing that can happen is her saying no then shell say sorry and shell ask if you still wanna be friends lol if she says yes then score it seems as if she likes you and giving hints out to you as well im sure theres two sides to this story but i think u mise well make a move sit her down and start talking about it the longer you wait she might think you lost interest or she might find another guy sooo hurry up

Answer 6

Awwuh, well I think she likes you and not to sound to cliche but she is probably thinking the same thing about you, not sure how to approach the subject, for all she knows you could just be a really good friend and wanting it to stay that way.

Everyone fears rejection but I believe you not going to get it and anyway, you cant keep it up much longer... Tell her, Tell her, Tell her!!

and tell me what happens?

Answer 7

make a move fast before she feels you only like her as a friend!her mixed signals are asking you what you want a friend or g-friend.so if your scared of rejection do it over the phone let her know you enjoy being with her and want to move to another level if she doesn't feel the same at least you will know.but from what you have told me she does like you she is just afraid of your rejection to her.so go for it.another piece of advice when you do hook up cut the friends out a little at a time more alone time equals a deeper relationship.let her hang with her friends you hang with yours.hope this helps you!

Answer 8

i think she likes its just she is probaly scared to make the first move

(most girls are)

and shes probaly inviting her friends because she dousnt want to have any of those awkward silence with the guy that she likes cause then she thinks some one might saysomthing stupid.

but before you ask her you should probaly get one of you friends to ask one of her friends if she likes you (make sure your friend is good friends with her friend)

you should probaly make the first move

good luck

and it kinda depends on your ages

under 10 stay friends

above 12 you should ask her

hope it helps