Does this girl like me?help please?

Question

im hoping you can help me.theres this girl i like but i only get to see her at this big event like twice a year.shes pretty and has looked at me a few times but ive never had the courage to go up and speak to her!

once when she was takin a photo she sort of brushed her arm against my arm but thats about it!i want to know how should i go up to her and what to say to her.i dont know if she lkes me.im 20 but im guessing shes a few years younger and i dont know any of her mates!please you got to help me

thank you

Answer 1

A start would be talking to her , just ask her general questions . Then once you've got a conversation flowing compliment her on how she looks and her reaction will probably tell you weather she is interested.

All you can do is give it a go. You never know until you try

Not all girls bite you no :)

Answer 2

:-) I like your Q because you seem to be just as shy as I was at your age, I'm 26 now and have managed to come out of my shell a bit more.  Here is some advice to first boost your confidence and self-esteem which in turn will make you more attractive to this girl and secondly some advice on how to approach her.(she is after all not a mind-reader and you must make her aware of your interest in her)

1.  For this event that you see her at...start planning.  Exercise and a balanced diet starting today will ensure you're looking fit and healthy for this big day.  Also ensure you have some stylish and comfortable threads, something that is in-keeping with your personality but also makes you feel really hot!  This will give you added confidence.

Think about what this girl was doing/wearing when you saw her?  Who was she talking to, etc?  This will give you a small insight into her personality and interests, eg, if she was wearing stylish, trendy clothes-she clearly has an interest in fashion..you then would learn a little about this so that you have something to say and impress her with when you start talking to her.  

Learn to be comfortable with who you are.  make a list of your best qualities and interests, I'm sure you will find lots about you that would make you desirable to any girl especially this one.

2.  At this event...wait to see if she is in a group with a few people, go join in their conversation or if she appears alone, go up to her, smile and greet her, introduce yourself and when she says her name gently shake hands and say you are pleased to meet her.  Ask her how she is liking the event?  take in her entire appearance and make a meaningful compliment eg, your dress really compliments your X colour eyes. (Yes, it sounds corny, but us girls are suckers for that kind of stuff)

Be polite, calm and confident.  Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

if your not confident don't worry about it just make sure you smile at her or she might think you dont like her

girls quite like shy guys so dont try and be confident just be yourself

if shes younger that gives you an advantage

also you might think shes confident because shes pretty but shes probably just as shy as you

people think im really confident but im secretly so shy and feel awkward round lots of people :(  i just try and act confident

youll be fine you sound lovely

good luck

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Answer 4

Just give it a go! just go up to her and talk to her! someone may just needs to break the ice! you wil regret it if you dont give it a go! what have you got to loose?

Answer 5

ya should atleast talk and let your presence be felt by her..just to have this mutual thing goin on as shes probably seen ya on your previous events..i say just go up to her and talk bout balloons or somethin..its only twice a year dude,don't let it pass the next time around mate or its gonna be too late .. its do or die dude

Answer 6

Just before you attend the next event that she is going to be at, visualise yourself as a tiger!

Then go and get her tiger!

No one on here can really answer your question about whether or not she likes you.... she brushed her arm aganist yours???? Look you are going to have to talk to her if you want more of a signal than that!

Answer 7

You have to have enough courage to speak to her or else nothing will happen and you'll really regret it!

SO take a deep breath and be a man! Go up and introduce yourself and talk talk talk!

FLIRTING is good too... Before the event ends, make sure you get her number or some kind of contact!!

Hope this helps.

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