Does this look like it could be more then just friends?

Question

well i met this guy at a bar 2 weeks ago and well he is stationed in another state so we wont be able to see each other for a while..but we talk through email every night!...well about 4 days ago he was telling me stuff like he wants me soo BAD! and that hes really attracted to me but lately he hasnt been talking to me as much? im hopeing its computer problems..but we had a good conversation last night but he told me that i shouldnt wait just for him to come back because he doesnt want me to miss out if i find someone i like..but the thing is hes the only person i really want and i just have a gut feeling about him.....and then he told me he more then likely wouldnt have a girlfriend so we would be able to hang out and then he said i hope you dont have bf when i come back =) does this look like it could become more then just friends??

Answer 1

If he says that he's attracted to you and that he hopes you dont have any girlfriends, and has a conveersation every night then i say theres a flame.  When he gets back be excited. It's obvious he likes you. You gguys could become 2 so keep your eyes peeled. :)

Answer 2

Keep dating other men.

When he said that you "shouldn't wait just for him to come back because he doesnt want me miss out if i find someone " you like means that he is dating other women.  If anything clicks there...well you may end up second.

Answer 3

How long is he going to be gone? Do you really want to waste time on him, what if he comes back and has a gf? If I were you I'd casually date, you know, go out on dates and things but don't look for anything serious. This guy could just be a fling and another guy that you turn down could be the "right" guy and you might miss out. It sounds like he's interested, but keep in mind, you've only known each other for 2 weeks...Like I said casually date, go with the flow, if its meant to happen it'll happen.

Answer 4

it does seem very likely that you will become more than friend but i hope he's not after just s*x cause i know that could crush you.