Does this make my ex wife a nut?

Question

she used to nag me alot when i first left.then she calmed down.i think it was because she got a bf.i felt relieved.well that wasn't the case.now she has to move and of all the places ,its right down the road from where i live.fact is there are plenty of places to rent in the town she lived in.why next to me?we do have kids together and i do see them and i regularly pay my c/s.and she has a bf.

Answer 1

no i dont think just because she moved down the road from you it makes her a nut, but i don't know the circumstances of your divorce either, best is i can tell you is try and get a long with her cause you may not be married to her anymore but shes still gonna be in your life no matter what you do!! you have kids together...no changing that =)

Answer 2

I think certain people bring out the "nut" in the other. She may not be a nut but perhaps the combination of the two of you caused that nuttiness. Good luck! And treat your kids great, because they are kids and dont deserve parents that cause nuttiness.  

Answer 3

You DO NOT need to do what is right for the children. That is women talk for, "You need to stay in my sight so that I can make your life h**l!". You DO need to do what is right for your new life and yourself. The children will be fine. Just pay your c/s and see them as much as you wish.

It would be best to move away from your ex at least a few blocks, at least. But, If you are asking this question to be serious? Then you need to STOP!

Your ex is your enemy. She will spend the rest of her life getting back at you. The day you realize this is the day you will be set free.  

Answer 4

Why does Bruce Willis live across the street from ex-Demi Moore and Aston Kutcher?  He says to make it so he can see the kids all the time.

Maybe your ex is just trying to make things convenient.

Then again, she could be a nutjob  :)

Answer 5

You know what..think of the positive side..your kids are right down the road...you can take walks in the late evenings...and they will just know you are there.    As for the ex....if you don't like seeing/talking to her...just do it for your kids...Believe me...my parents divorced 35 years ago...and they still cant be in the same room ...For your kids..just learn to get along..bite your lip..and just smile when you see her

Answer 6

My ex husband moved  into  the same townhouse complex as me, with his live- in girlfriend! Its turned out to be just fine.. The kids get to see their Dad more often, even if its just stopping in there  to say hi on their way home from school.

We were starting to have trouble with the kids not wanting to go for their weekends with their dad, because they couldnt see their friends. Now they are still in the neighbourhood, and can do all their normal activities. It just makes sense, and is far better for the kids.  

Answer 7

You've totally misread the situation.

   The woman is far from a nut, what she is, is being quite manipulative about the whole situation.

   You see, if she has a bf, then she is looking after their relationship. Step kids are h**l on a relationship, especially if he has none. Then of course, she wants alone time with him, a "free and handy sitter" and of course there's your visitation "made easy".

    The kids will be at your place most the time and you'll still have to pay the child support to her.

   If i were you, i would plan to move, but be very quiet about it.

   This was no mistake, it was well planned and i'm sure she has a lot more "coincidences" up her other sleeve.

Answer 8

Maybe she got a good deal. The bottom line is both of you need to do what is best for the children. Maybe she truly does have their best interest at heart. Don't let your children see your bitterness and whatever you do, don't bad-mouth her in front of the kids.

Answer 9

It does not make her a nut. I think she still loves you yet you only see the bad side of her.

Answer 10

no i think it was just she felt the need 2 nag u a lot bcuz she worried ud do something wrong. and she stopped bcuz well ur not 2gether

Answer 11

I think you need a life. Or move.

Answer 12

Maybe she just wants her kids to be near their father.