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Does this make sense? it's one of my blog entries.?

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So i was thinking, about relationships. Not like sexual boy-girl (traditionally :/) relationships. I mean i suppose they would be included, but not them specifically. More relationships in the broader sense of the word.

I personally have found that i am terrible at relationships; initiating-starting them, keeping them intact, and most of all understanding them. I have a very good boyfrind of mine. Not boyfriend, more friend who is a boy. Happens to be in love withmy sister but that is another story. What troubles me is that i for the life of me can’t seem to dissect what our relationship is built on. We love eachother but i only just started talking to him again, and quite honestly im not convinced that we really know eachother that well. I have the feeling that our whole existance as a couple (of friends) is entirely superficial. Which is weird because he really is one of my very best boy friends.

Initating- starting a relationship. I am a shy person, as i have reitterated again and again in my past blogs. But i am c**p *** at starting relationships- conversations even!- let alone relationships. And i seem to find myself really really hating the world and hating people who are obviously happier than i am, if only for at small amount of time. I supposed these two things seem to be unrelated, but they’re really not. I believe that you have to have the will to initiate before you actually do so. Otherwise the world is for c**p. I am being called away i will return soon...

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  1. It sure does make great sense.

    First of all, you need to be happy and content with yourself. You need to love yourself before you can love someone else.

    You need to have self esteem and confidence in yourself to carry on a trusting relationship.

    I have to agree that the world is pretty crappy these days and life can be complicated and confusing.

    Step back and examine your personality traits and characteristics.

    This will help you understand many issues.

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