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Does this man deserve another chance out of love?

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On Friday I, asked my husband for gas money so i could get to work. He had nothing but came in with 2 six packs of beer. He told me it was none of bmy business where the money came from. I became upset and threw out 1 of his beers . He picked up a chair and came at me but came to his senses after our 4 year old hollered out. 3 years of marriage, lots invested,told me he wants a divorce, has not spoken to me since Saturday. I have another house, but He works for my business, Is driving my truck, I have his medical, dental, and vision plan, I pay all the utilities and the car insurance. His vehicle is down and needs a motor. He says he does not need me and does not want to see my face or hear my voice. Would you go back to your other home?

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  1. I would get a restraining order  and get him out of my house, my business and my life




  2. As far as i know,this is a question with many different answers,it is really depend on the judgement of yourself,provide a great resource here for reference though.http://car-insurance.bestips.info/car-in...

  3. If you keep fighting...you will propel your relationship to a new low...if you married him...you probably loved him...chances are you still do. You are fighting for nonsense at this point...you are both posturing yourselves and holding each other breath...Just chill and wait till he comes back...if that takes too long...call him...don't move out on account a a thrown beer.

    Take Care

  4. omg wtf i would just leave him rite there..

    pshh then he'll relize what he just lost

  5. No and it sounds like it has been coming to this for some time now or like he has someone else he's been seeing.  A man doesn't just decide to tell you off like that for no reason.  He's gonna end up hurting you.  I wouldn't go to another house either unless it was temporary place to get yourself and the kids away from him.  He would be leaving though.    

  6. Yes. I would get gone, and stay gone. He thinks he can pay his own way, let him have at it.

  7. I dont think I would give another chance...I would go stay in my other home...You deserve better than that...He probably wont change...

  8. And I thought I had issues! Thanks for your kind answer to my question.

    I am sorry to say to you that in my opinion things have gone bad in your marriage because he has given up ( His loss! ) He showed his true character when he threatened and no doubt scared you over a beer.

    No decent guy could or would do this. The fact he shows no remorse is a huge concern. He is capable of worse, What if your Daughter is not there the next time or he does not respond to her.

    The fact this happened in front of her at all is also a huge concern.

    However the fact he responded to her may mean he is not beyond redemption.

    That said you sound like a smart, capable and loving lady. You of course deserve better.

    Perhaps consider moving out temporarily for now. If he is worth another chance he will come to his senses and get his act together.

    Then as you rightly advised me ' Proceed with caution '

    If he does not you and your Daughter of course will be much better off as hard as it may be for you both in the short term.

    Best wishes to you.

  9. It shows he does not care for you...so give him the boot...find someone who appreciates you....

  10. That is a question that only you can answer.  He is likely upset about his finances as you say you do everything.  For you to mention it to us, you likely mention it to him indirectly.  He probably feels less of a man at this moment.  You moving to a different house unless you are truly prepared for your marriage to end will make matters worse.  Try getting a loan or something to cover some of the past debt and see how things pan out once there isn't so much of a financial burden.

  11. he sounds like a real a*****e. just take your kid and move in the other house and leave him to fend for himself. he needs you more than he thinks, but you don't need him. Leave his sorry ***.

  12. WOW! I don't really care about you as much as your child!  Fire the a*****e and kick him out!

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