Does this mean i'm insecure?

Question

I wear make-up alot, and if i go out places without it i feel so ugly, and i always keep asking people about my looks, and i'm always comparing myself to other girls,and i take pics of my body to see how skinny i'am and pics of my face to see if i'm that pretty and if people say i'm ugly or average i get really upset about it... does this mean i'm insecure?

Answer 1

oh

yeah

it kinda does

you need to boost your self esteem girl!

living life like this is badd!

Answer 2

It does sound like you might be suffering from some insecurity.  I don't think you should really rely on random people's opinion of you.  You should ask only those people that matter and they will be honest but not hurtful to you.  Most people will say mean things just because they can especially if they don't know you.  

You should look at your face without make up and point out things you like about it....and play up those features...instead of hiding all of it with lots of makeup....some days you will love your plain no makeup face...I do...then some days I feel like I need help...but I'm a lot older than you....

You should strive for what is perfect for your size, frame, and lifestyle...You should not try to be like others ... chances are you are not just like them...be you...and be happy about it...smile more... You just have to do what makes you happy....enjoy your youth!  

Answer 3

yer u r

Answer 4

yes i think you are insecure because it shouldn't matter what you look like what matters is for people to like you for what you are and what on the inside counts the most on the other hand its good that you love yourself.

Answer 5

Yerhh

Answer 6

you sound like me, so yes definitely

Answer 7

if you don't feel comfortable without make-up then just wear it all the time but i bet you look pretty without it anyway.

Answer 8

Yes on the face of it - you probably are and maybe there is a little vanity coming in there too.

My mother used to say to me a real lady puts on her makeup, does her hair nicely and dresses to feel good and goes out to have a good time without thinking constantly about her looks or fiddling with her hair etc - good advice I think - if you are constantly comparing yourself with others or asking others opinions of you - it will turn them off wanting to be a friend

True beauty comes from within and if you try to cultivate a good healthy attitude and relax and enjoy yourself and think of others - then it will show and people will like you for what you are - not for what you think that they should see. Thinking of others means helping people out at times and showing a genuine interest in what they do - looking after just your own interests shows a shallow side of your personality that others  may not like and it is great to have friends that you can count on and vice versa

Off you go and make some new friends, forget about the physical looks a little and you will find that when others take photos of you without you being aware that a beautiful person is in the photo - beautiful physically and emotionally

Its your life - go out there and embrace life  

Answer 9

Sounds like it :\

Answer 10

ok.. i dont post pics to see what people think...

but i only post pics i think are hot or i edit...

i think maybe u are insecure but so am i...

it is hard to live with but i think with age we can accept ourselves more...

try not to worry so much.,..

although i know it may be impossible...

Answer 11

uh... probably. on second thought, yes. of course you are. but don't worry there's nothing to be ashamed about. some people are just naturally insecure and there's nothing particularly embarrassing about it. :]

Answer 12

why do you care so much about people's opinion?

I don't think you're "insecure".I think you're hopeless.

Answer 13

There's nothing wrong with admiring yourself. But in public on a regular basis? No.

Answer 14

I wear make up a lot. I don't let anybody see me without it, except my bestfriend/cousin and my boyfriend. I have to look my best when I go out, I worry about what to wear if I go into town or to a friend's place etc. A lot of people in some way, are insecure, some people just hide it better or carry it better. Ask yourself why you're feeling this way, why do you care what people think about how you look etc. Be happy with yourself, stuff them and what they think.

Answer 15

about your looks maybe about yourseldf surely

Answer 16

Yes you're insecure, but how ugly can you be? Send me a pic or two and I'll get back to you with my honest opinion.