Does this mean my boyfriends hiding stuff from me?

Question

I was on his face book by mistake and some girl started talking and Said she missed him and things. And that she was really interested in him So i went along with it for awhile then asked my boyfriend and he told me he talks to her for relationship problems. But i asked him why he didn't tell me he's talking to some girl that clearly has a think for him. and he said cause he's afraid to how ill react to things.

so it makes him not want to tell me

Answer 1

He's hiding stuff from you because if the girl was just talking to him due to relationship problems she wouldn't have said that she was really interested in him and that she missed him and stuff.  However, one plus for your boyfriend is that it sounds like he hasn't been encouraging her too much or she wouldn't have said she missed him.  Also, it was wrong of you to go along with this just to test him.  I would ask your bf point blank if he has any feelings for this girl and tell him you want the truth.  Also, I think you should ask him not to correspond anymore with her b/c it is obvious she likes him more than a friend and if he talks to her then he is leading her on.

Answer 2

Does it really matter?

Answer 3

It sounds like he does hide things from you, and for some reason he doesn't trust you. Relationships should be based on trust, and no lies. Do you get jealous easily, that might be a reason for his not wanting to tell you because of your reaction. If you are not, then i don't know his reasoning. Either way, there is no reason for him to keep something like that from you if they are just friends.

Answer 4

mayb he is cheating but doesnt wanna tell u.

Answer 5

i think you should try to believe him, it sounds reasonable. just talk to him, nd ask him to be honest and that you will be honest with him. HONESTY IS THE KEY! good luck!

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Answer 6

First of all honesty is the best policy........   Does he not have any one else he can go to advice for beside someone who likes him.  Yes come talk to me about your problems so I can either tell you the wrong thing cause I want you or figure out what you don't like so that I don't do that when I am with you...  Your friends should be mutual

Answer 7

If you tend to get upset a lot with things he mentions, he'll go to someone else who will actually want to listen and hear him out without making a big fuss with what he says. Someone not involved.

Answer 8

Facebook is very dangerous way for couples to explore other

possible relationships, I have noticed many subliminal things

on my wife's site, and it makes we wonder if she is exploreing

possible relationships. I try to keep an eye on it but she kicked me off.

That just further tells me there's more to it. I would get him off or at

least make you a friend.  

Answer 9

He is prob. taking advantage of her and he doesnt like her but he needs some1 to talk to, let it be, if he is this concerned bout making sur u believe him than he wouldnt cheat on u anyway