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Does this seem fair? please provide reasonable answers?

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when i was in india in december 2003, i persuaded my cousin and his family and my mom's sister and brother-in-law to visit me in america. my cousin came to the usa by himself last year. my mom persuaded him to visit california, but due to his busy schedule he couldnt get time then i went there and spent three days with him. he persuaded me to visit india. the following week, i got my driver's licence. since i needed time to look for a car, i couldnt go to india. this year, my cousin made another trip to america with his wife and 2 sons and they came to visit me for five days. then end of july, my mom's sister came to visit me for a month. since i persuaded everyone to come visit me in america and they finally came, everyone is persuading me to visit them in india. does it seem like the only reason why my family from india came to visit me was because i was able to drive them around? i was on summer vacation. throughout the trip, my uncle and aunt kept telling me without me, they would have been bored to death. my mom leaves for work around 9 am and doesnt get home until 6-7 pm. my aunt and uncle have been telling everyone including my dad and all of their friends they met. on monday, my college opened. i left home at 7 and didnt get home until 11:30 am. when i got home, they were sleeping. on tuesday, i left home at 7 and didnt get home until 3:30 pm. today they were flying back but luckily i had only one class. i left home at 7 and didnt get home until 12:30. my mom took the day off to take them to the airport. my mom asked me if i was going to the airport and my uncle said "she should come. she will be alone at home. then he said i want her to come." every morning as i got up, my uncle would ask me what time i'm coming back. when i get home, they're fast asleep and i have to wake them up. when i am in india, i'm home all day while everyone is at work. now i hope they're coming here made them realize how i felt. today, my uncle told me when we come to india, he will show me all of india and that surprised me. since they came when i persuaded them and i didnt go when they persuaded me, would that be fair?

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  1. It sounds to me like they love you and enjoy spending time with you. They appreciate what you did for them so they assured you they would take the time to do the same for you when you go there.

    It sounds to me like you have a wonderful, close-knit family with a lot of love to share. You are very fortunate and should go stay with them.

    I don't understand what your problem is. Many people would be thrilled to have a family like them. You are very blessed to have them.


  2. why are you thinking into it soo much and freaking out,

    don't worry, if they were busy, they were busy, its' not like a give and take thing... you did your job, and that's what matters.  

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