Does this seem rude?

Question

ok so at camp i was going out with this guy intill he dumped me and few days before the big dance next i my friend in my cabin stared liking him and then going out with him and would not stop bragging 24\7 she promised she'd help me find a date for the dance the next day and she dindt so i asked why and she was like "oh i got distraced" and said she help me at the carnavile but then at the before the carnavile she was like "promise me u wont follow me and my date all night" in a real mean way when i never really followed them before and when i said that she ot all worked up and wont even let me say hi to him after that, then the next day she was like "were still friends right?" and i really didnt know what to say

so then a few days before camp ended a gave her a sheet of paper with my myspace to give to my ex so we could keep in touch cuz he were still friends and she was like "he thinks ur a crazy stalker who still likes him and leave him alone!" and took the paper and probley didnt give it to him

do u think this is rude?

Answer 1

there may have been better way's to say it, yes. but then again you may have been a "crazy stalker"......

Answer 2

this girl you knew at camp is not your friend.  forget about her and the boy too.

Answer 3

Yeah it sounds pretty rude.  You know what the best advice is, the trouble is following it.  You are young, not sure how young, but regardless of that you are old enough to know how it feels to be burned by a friend an a boy you liked.  That being said you know that you need to distance yourself from both of them.

The tendency is to hold on to the love that you thought you had.  Regardless of how much you believed in that love it was more from you than him. That's obvious because of how fast and mean he moved on.  The only recourse is to move on yourself.

Easier said than done.  Give it some time and it will get easier.

I feel for you, good luck.

:)

Answer 4

In a nutshell yes but thats girls for you, better to find a new friend and look after yourself.

Answer 5

That was the most amazing sentence ever.

Answer 6

OMG very!

how messed up!

i mean, I think it's messed up;

Answer 7

first off she is obviously not a friend if she is willing to go out with the boy who just broke up with you.

good friends stand by your side when a boy takes advantage of their feelings.

so she's not a true friend.

second off, that was so d**n rude i probably wouldve broken that hoes jaw.

just ignore her.

find some other people to chill with because obviously she is too consumed by being a self-centered little brat to acknowlegde you and your feelings towards this who situation.

Answer 8

maybe it's just me, but I think it's very rude to expect a friend to do my dirty work for me.  a person who expected that of me, in my personal opinion, wouldn't be a true friend.  Friends are for comiseration, support, and to help pick up the pieces when we mess up.  They are not responsible for my happiness, nor are they responsible for my unhappiness, and don't have to live their lives to please me.  My happiness is my job, my sweet, as it is every individuals.  Godspeed.