Does this sound fast or ok ?

Question

I had my first date with this great guy last night.

He called this afternnoon and we chatted again for about forty minutes. Like really random stuff just to try to get to know about each other more.

Then he called again about four hours later to ask how work was. i joked about how long i had to be at work for and he said he wouldnt mind if he was stuck at my work all day as long as i was there with him.

so sweet but two calls and what he said in less than 24 hours after our first date started. we havnt even made plans for a second date yet, put i def want to get together again soon. does that seem like a little much or am i just over reacting?

Ive never been in an actual real relationship (im almost 21) so i dont know if this is standard, him just be amazin, or a little on the heavy side so soon.

Answer 1

Sounds a little pushy.  It could be just that he REALLY enjoyed your company and is eager to get to know you better.  OR he could be a little obsessive.  Trust your gut with this one.  If he starts getting TOO involved...send him on his way.

Answer 2

It sounds a little odd but if he has never been in a real relationship or not many at all he could just be really nervous. If he is nervous next time you talk to him tell him its

ok and tell him you like him