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Does this sound like an affair scenario? xx?

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Okay basically, my dad has always felt he's had problems with his eyes, ever since he was a child and heard something on the radio he's avoided all doctors appointments etc just incase they found out something was wrong, it got to the point where he was scared to drive, but didn't tell me (his daughter) or my mother. Last year he was acting suspiciously, going out, texting lots, coming home late and stuff. When my mother decided she'd had enough she made him tell her what was going on, apparently he'd met a woman at work, someone he could confide in about his eyes, she persuaded him to get them checked and it turned out he only needed glasses, shortly after at christmas he apparently bought her a book and some kind of crystal thing, then a letter came in the post, something along the lines of 'Its time to move on, was nice to meet you' etc. From then on shes supposedly disappeared. He claims to have only met her 5 or 6 times. It seems very odd to me that a woman he was only friends with would bother writing him a letter. All my mother got for christmas was a spider hoover that doesn't work.

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  1. Yep and the other woman found out that she had been found out about and is gone.


  2. There is nothing wrong with this dictators eyes He's an abuser .....He needs his head fixed not his eyes ! That's only an excuse for attention . Is he an attention seeker ? He sounds like a mini hitler to me ! Stand up to this ***-hole ......he needs to be put in his place & to learn that the world does NOT revolve around HIM ! He is not the centre of the universe ! He is pulling the wool over your mothers eyes ! She deserves better than this ! Get help for yourself And your mum  please , You are being mentally , emotionally & psychically abused ! Don't make any excuses for him !! I know he's your dad but if he wont get help you and your mother should not have to live walking on eggshells ! No one has to live like this these days ! We all deserve to be happy .........God did not put us on this earth to suffer ! Contact your nearest women's centre or hostel immediately ( please ! ) Angel blessings & good luck hon........You deserve the best !!

  3. Try considering a paradigm shift in your interaction with other. Do know harm.

  4. Erm, he's always been violent and this evening tried to strangle my mum, which is the worst its gotten. If he's been having an affair then frankly I want him out, but I have no proof.

    Seems to me your priorities are scewed.So to you proof of an affair is worse than attempted strangulation of your mother?

  5. Sounds like somethings not right. If I were your mum, I would want the other woman's phone number or a way to get a hold of her and talk directly to her. It's the only way to find out the truth. But your mum needs to talk with her calmly to find out. If your dad has nothing to hide, then he should give it to her.

    As a wife, I would be very upset that after all theses years of driving myself and our daughter with bad vision and risking our lives and hiding it from us, that suddenly a woman that he says he doesn't know very well can get him to go and get glasses. Then on top of all that, he strangles you mum. There's no second chance with that, he could have killed her that one time. Your mum needs to kick him out, let her talk with the other woman and complete some anger management and then she can decide if he is worthy to come back. Period!

  6. Domestic violence is worse, if he kills her, can anger management help then!!

    Unfaithful can be sorted, through marriage counselling

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