Does this sound like it'll work out for me?

Question

I'm 14, almost 15, and a sophomore in high school. For the first year of high school, I was shy and scared and overwhelmed by high school, and I didn't really know how to make friends.

Now, there's this girl who I'm in two classes with. I kind of knew her last year but I've gotten to know her a lot better this year. One of the classes I have with her is PE, and in PE i'm hanging out with her and a close friend of hers. She and her friend are both really nice. They're kind to everyone, even this special ed kid whom everyone else is mean to. They seem really sweet and accepting and open.

They hang out with this girl in my math class who I don't think likes me very much. But she could be just shy, and that's why she won't talk to me.

So you think maybe tomorrow I should ask them after PE if I can sit with them at lunch? We have PE right before lunch. You think they'd be okay with that? They're honestly two of the sweetest girls I know, but some people can be all weirded out if someone else tries to hang out with them. I don't know ... I need opinions. I'm shy about some things. Asking if I can sit with them during lunch is totally out of my comfort zone, and I need encouragement or opinions or suggestions. Thank you!

Answer 1

Go for it! Just be yourself and be friendly! Good luck!

Answer 2

Don't ask just do it. 99% of people wont care especially if they are becoming your friends in class. Just go for it and don't make it a big deal out of it..have fun.

Answer 3

Go for it the worst they can say is no....you should just try bc what if you wated and didnt ask all year and they ended up saying ya...you would regret not asking sooner....so just be smooth like...where you guys sit at during lunch?? Mind if I sit with you guys....something like that.....Good luck!!!

Answer 4

It sounds like that's your best option if those girls are so nice. Who else would you sit with?  I think you should go for it because if they're nice to a special ed. kid they aren't going to chase you away from their lunch table.  Good luck! =]